#630: Insights from Dr. Matthew Walker, Adam Grant/Atul Gawande, Diana Chapman, and Rich Roll/David Goggins

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At this altitude, I can run flat out for a half mile before my hands start shaking. Can I answer your personal question? Now what is it? a cybernetic organism, living tissue over metal empty. So Hello, boys and girls, ladies and germs, this is Tim Ferris. Welcome to another episode of the Tim Ferris Show, where it is usually my job to deconstruct world class performers to tease out their routines, habits, et cetera, that you can apply to your own.

Life and lives. This episode is something different. It's an experimental format that I am super excited about, and apparently so are many of you. It's back by popular demand. This is an episode that scratches an itch I've had for many years now. I'm not Always able to listen to every great podcast episode out there, even when they are by some of my closest friends. To answer that predicament, I decided to ask them, many of my friends, to send a top segment from their own podcast. podcasts that I could listen to and more importantly also share with you, my dear listeners. My team edited them together, and here we are. This episode is a compilation of roughly fifteen to thirty minute clips from some of the best podcasters and also best interviewees in the world, and certainly some of my favorites. At the beginning of each clip, you will hear an intro from the host and where to find their work and podcast. At the end, I'll also share

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Without further ado. Please. Enjoy. Hi there.

My name is Matt Walker, and I am a professor of neuroscience at the University of California, Berkeley. I'm also the author of the book Why We Sleep. And I've given a couple of TED talks here and there as well. I'm also the host of the Matt Walker podcast. A sample of which I wanted to offer here.

Now, I think it's safe to say that when most podcasters think about their audience perhaps uh falling asleep or nodding off while listening, It can be profoundly disheartening. However. Based on the topic of this podcast, I'm going to actively encourage that kind of behavior from you. Um, in fact, knowing what I know, particularly about the relationship between sleep and memory

It's the greatest form of flattery for me is to think that people like you cannot resist the urge to strengthen and consolidate what I'm telling you. By falling asleep. So um please just feel free to ebb and flow in and out of consciousness throughout the entire episode.

I'll take absolutely no offense. And today in terms of the episode We're going to speak about two things. First, I'm going to tell you about the impact of Alcohol.

on your sleep. Which right from the off is going to make me um deeply unpopular. Um and if that wasn't bad enough, I'm going to follow it up by speaking about the impact of caffeine. On your sleep. So let's first speak about nightcaps.

And here, by the way, I'm not speaking about the physical kind. What I'm talking about here is is the liquid kind. We're talking about alcohol and sleep. So we're going to talk a little bit about what alcohol is as a chemical.

Then we'll speak about how alcohol impacts your sleep, and then we'll explain why it is that alcohol has these harmful impacts on your sleep. Alcohol is perhaps one of the most misunderstood sleep aids that there is out there. As we're going to learn, it is anything but A sleep aid. And even though people may feel as though a wee drink in the evening, or several drinks in the evening,

maybe helping their sleep. In fact It's harming your sleep. Alcohol will impact your sleep. In three specific ways.

First. Alcohol is in a class of drugs that we call the sedatives. And sedation is not sleep. but when we've had a drink in the evening, we mistake the former for the latter.

We mistake sedation for sleep. And I should probably explain in a little more detail what the difference is between those two. Because sedatives, um such as alcohol, will effectively switch off. brain cell firing, particularly in your cortex. Sleep.

On the other hand. Is very different. As we learned about in the first episode of this podcast. It's during sleep and especially during deep sleep that when hundreds of thousands of brain cells all of a sudden decide to sing together in this amazing feat of coordination.

And they all fire together? And then they all go silent. Together. And then they fire together. And then they all go silent together.

And that's very different. to sedation. And if I were to show you the electrical signature of your sleep when you have alcohol on board versus a natural night of sleep, you would recognize that those two electrical signature patterns are are very different. So that's the first issue regarding alcohol. We shouldn't mistake sedation for sleep.

But when we've had a few drinks in the evening, we tend to think that we fall asleep more quickly. In reality, all we're actually doing is losing consciousness more quickly. We're not going into naturalistic sleep. The second issue with alcohol is is that it fragments your sleep.

In other words, alcohol will litter your sleep. With many more awakenings throughout the night. One of the problems, by the way, with these short awakenings is that you typically don't remember them, but it still leaves your sleep. Peppered or littered with all of these brief awakenings. In other words, your sleep is less continuous. And a good example of this is a recent experimental study conducted in a sleep laboratory.

And if you take a group of healthy adults and you give them a body standardized dose of alcohol, one that would probably just put you right at the legal blood alcohol content limit for driving. And then you let the sleep recordings offer the the sort of the jury verdict, as it were. relative to a placebo knight of sobriety. Sleep, especially in the second half of the night, was far more fragmented when alcohol had been taken on board. Indeed, come the last four hours of the night be

Those participants spent ninety four percent more time awake having had alcohol in the evening, relative to to when they were sober. Because of that fragmentation of your sleep caused by alcohol, despite the fact that you don't remember it, you wake up the next morning and you don't feel restored by your sleep. You don't feel refreshed by your sleep. The third concern with alcohol is Is that it will block

Your rapid eye movement sleep, or what we often think of as dream sleep. In fact Alcohol is one of the most potent suppressors of RESleep. That's perhaps concerning considering that REM sleep is associated with a constellation of different benefits, both for your brain and also for your body, and we'll speak about those in subsequent episodes. But this includes things such as learning and memory, creativity, or

rebalancing your mood and your emotions. And downstairs in the body, REM sleep is associated with the recalibration of numerous different hormone systems, including, for example, testosterone, And more recently we've discovered that REM sleep is significantly associated with your longevity. And the less REM sleep that you have predicts a shorter lifespan. So in other words, REM sleep seems to be critical for numerous aspects of health and wellness, even for the fundamentals of life.

Which brings me on to one of the strange side effects of alcohol. some people, um and I'm not suggesting it's you uh listening to this, but let's just say some hypothetical people. may have gone out on a Friday night or a Saturday night, and they've had a good number of drinks. And the next morning they may end up experiencing Very vivid.

Very strong And very intense dreams. Why is this? Well It turns out that your brain keeps a clock counter of how much REM sleep you should normally have.

And how much REM sleep that you have lost. As a consequence of alcohol and Being in your system. The brain throughout the night then starts to build this incredible hunger for REM sleep. This drive for Rem sleep because it's been starved during the early part of

and the middle part of the night as the alcohol has been washing around in your system. and then if you sleep late into that subsequent morning, into a Saturday or a Sunday morning, after a few too many drinks, your brain will try to get back some of the REM sleep that it has lost. So then as you're sleeping late into that subsequent morning after a night of a few too many drinks, Your brain is clever. Having kept a clounter of how much REM sleep you should have had, but how much REM sleep you have not been able to achieve, it will try to get back some of the REM sleep you

that has been absent. This is what we call a REM sleep rebound effect. In other words, the brain in those last few hours of the night, when your liver and your kidneys have finally cleared out the alcohol. will not only try to get the normal amount of REM sleep that you would have but it will also try to get back some of the REM sleep that you have lost. As a consequence, that's why you have these really intense, really vivid dream experiences. And again,

Just to make mention, the brain never gets back. All of the REM sleep that it's lost. it will only get back some of that REM sleep during the REM sleep rebound effect. So that's a little bit about what alcohol is and and the three different ways in which alcohol can disrupt your sleep.

And also some of the ways that it can give you some rather strange, rather vivid dreams on the morning after. So that's sleep and alcohol. But now let me transition To something different. Sleep.

And caffeine. This is perhaps going to sound strange coming from someone like me. But I'm going to suggest That you drink coffee. Because the health benefits associated with coffee are

And many of them are significant. and in a separate episode of my podcast that we won't feature here. I will tell you why coffee is associated with those health benefits.

But for the rest of this episode, we're going to focus on exactly what caffeine is. As a substance. And then we'll dive deep into how caffeine can impact your sleep at night. In several different ways.

Also we'll speak about how and why different people Can be more than or less vulnerable. Of caffeine.

So let's start with exactly How caffeine works. In our previous episode on sleep pressure, we learned all about how caffeine can keep you awake. during the day. Here we're going to focus on how caffeine can impact your sleep.

At night. Caffeine is in a class of drugs that we call the psychoactive stimulants. And I'm sure that you knew that caffeine was some form of a stimulant. However, there are several hidden consequences of caffeine that That you may be less.

Aware of. One of these is Of action. Caffeine has what we call a half life of about five to six hours in the average adult.

In other words, after five to six hours, Fifty percent of that caffeine. is still going to be in your system. What that means is that caffeine will then have a quarterlife. Of about

Ten to twelve hours. So in other words, let's say that you have a cup of coffee at two PM in the afternoon. Almost a quarter of that caffeine could still be circulating in your brain at midnight. Or perhaps even more than a quarter of that caffeine. And the

probably rather crass analogy here would be that if you have a cup of coffee at two PM, it would be the equivalent of getting into bed at midnight And just before you turn the lights out, you swig a quarter of a cup of coffee and you hope for a good night of sleep. And it tends not to happen. In part this comes back to the stimulant properties of caffeine. First, caffeine is going to make it more difficult for you to fall asleep.

When your head hits the pillow. Added to this is the fact that caffeine will increase levels of anxiety. So as you're lying there, not being able to fall asleep, You suffer that sort of terrible experience of a a racing mind that won't shut off.

I almost liken this to a sort of a roller dex of anxiety that can flood your brain due to the effects of caffeine. The second and related issue is that not only will caffeine make it harder for you to fall asleep, but It will then also make it more difficult for you to To stay asleep soundly

Across the night. This is because caffeine will make your sleep more unstable. In other words, it will cause you to wake up more frequently. At night. And the consequence is something that we call sleep fragmentation.

meaning that your overall sleep efficiency or the quality of your sleep becomes significantly worse when you have caffeine on board. As a quick aside, some people will tell me, look I am one of those individuals I can have an espresso with dinner and I fall asleep. And I stay asleep.

So No harm, no foul. Well Yes and no. Even if you fall asleep easily and then you stay asleep across the night.

Caffeine will still decrease the amount of deep sleep that your brain can generate. And I'll go into that in far greater detail in the second episode. But I make that point because most people are not consciously aware of the lack of that deep sleep. Even though they don't remember having a hard time falling asleep. Or staying asleep.

And in fact. Why don't I just pause for a second? Let's linger on this common statement that I receive from people about their sensitivity. What we know is that the effects of caffeine are highly variable. From one individual To the next.

I said earlier that the quarterlife of caffeine is somewhere between 10 to 12 hours, but that's for the average adult. It's really quite different. from one person to the next that you will pass on the street. Using a variety of different assessment techniques and methods, what we've recently discovered is that your sensitivity to caffeine is due in part To your genetics.

Different people will have a more or less efficient version of an enzyme that breaks down caffeine. And if you're if you're nerd curious like me, the class of liver compounds that we're talking about here are called cytochrome. P four fifty enzymes. I've always thought, by the way, that Cytochrome P four fifties would be a great title for an album. Don't you think that would be brilliant? Um no, probably

Just me. Uh anyway, um getting back to the story. Some people will have a version of that enzyme that allows them to metabolize the caffeine very quickly. Whereas other people will have a version of that enzyme or set of enzymes, it turns out. Which is much slower in its speed of breakdown of that caffeine.

And as a result, that caffeine will linger in their system far longer than it would do in someone who can metabolize it quite quickly. For those people who can't metabolize it and cleanse the system of the caffeine as quickly, those are the people who are highly sensitive to the effects of caffeine. By the way, unfortunately having run my own genetic screening test, I am one of those slow caffeine metabolizers. Uh. It makes me so sad because I adore the smell of freshly ground coffee. I love that ritual.

I would say, however, that decaffeinated coffee, if you find the right one, can be almost as extraordinary. But again, I'm telling my story. This is not about me, this is about you and this podcast. If you would like to know by the way which caffeine sensitive type you are. There are several genetic testing kits out there, and I won't name names that you can easily buy online and

And they will often assess those specific set of relative genes. Um once again, if you're curious. The two most relevant genes for you to look out for regarding this caffeine sensitivity are called CYP one A two and A

H. Um total alphabet spaghetti, wasn't it? And with that spaghetti thrown against the informational wall of today's episode, I will simply say thank you for listening. And if you want to connect with me further, you can find me on Twitter using the handle at At Sleep Diplomat.

You can find me on the web. at sleepdiplomat.com But mostly and if you've not lost the will to live listening to my dulcet British tones at this point, You can listen to many more episodes. From this which is

My podcast, it's called the Matt Walker Podcast on all of your standard podcast platforms. So take care and goodbye from me. Hey everyone, it's Adam Grant. Welcome back to Rethinking, my podcast on the scientist of what makes us tick. I'm an organizational psychologist.

And I'm taking you inside the minds of fascinating people to explore how they think. And what we should all rethink. Today's guest is Atul Gawande, a surgeon, Harvard professor, New Yorker writer, and bestselling author of books like Complications and Being Mortal. I've long admired a tool's work on error, checklists, and coaching. And in a conference last year.

I got to see his confidence and compassion firsthand, when he helped rescue me from a severe allergic reaction. Thanks, Atul. In January twenty twenty two. He started a new job in the White House as assistant administrator of USAID's Bureau for Global Health. So it's a perfect time to talk with him about leadership.

Learning from mistakes. and how he works with his coach. You chose surgery. That's an enormously consuming career. Somehow you managed to find time to write for the New Yorker. How did your identity expand from I'm just gonna be a surgeon and that could that could take up all my time to I'm actually gonna have a side gig as a a prominent writer.

The best advice I Got which Came late in life but seemed to register was

A colleague who said Just say yes. Until you're forty. And after forty just say no. When you're young.

You don't know. what actually energizes you and what you will prove to be good at. You don't have a sample size to know. And I started with the base assumption that I grew up around medicine, so I could be comfortable in it. But even in medicine, you don't know what you're gonna be when you grow up. What kind of field do you wanna go into? Do you wanna lead people? Do you want to

go deep in a technical area? Do you wanna be in a research lab? Do you want to Do Startups do you want to do? public health, there's so many different directions to go. And

I just said yes. I hit college and found my mind was blown. I was from a rural town in Ohio and there was incredible possibilities I ended up going to a place like Stanford where Everything was open to me. It was too much choice.

And so I just started saying yes to stuff and then I paid attention to The things that actually energized me. Just finding time flew when I did certain things. I was very into Steven J. Gould, the writer on evolution

I was very into health policy and I was very into understanding Clinical. trials and how you create impact.

In science. That blossomed. into saying yes to Spending time on presidential campaigns around health care.

And I worked for Gary Hart and Dal Gore. When he ran. Long story short By the time I Got out of college.

I was Ready to do Several things that took ten years to fit together. I did. A degree in politics and philosophy.

I worked on the hill. In Washington. I started my training in surgery. I

would end up getting a degree in public health during my surgery training. And when I put it all together. the thing that was totally unexpected was I had stuff to write about. And I began writing for Slate magazine and that became the New Yorker magazine.

I loved surgery. And I found I ha could have technical skills in How to build.

public health interventions and make it work. And only later Did I reach that point? My late thirties hitting forty. Where I said no to everything.

Except. how I could put together Writing. as a way of exploring what I was experiencing in Day to day medicine and the failures of the system.

And how we cope with The fact that We now are in a world where We can live into our eighties on average. If we can access the capabilities

of a Science. That has given us drugs. Medical and surgical procedures, public health interventions. But only part of our population gets to have that advantage.

in the United States or around the world. And our job has become to deploy that capability town by town to Everybody alive. And I get to explore it through writing. I get to live it.

Through my Practical Work as a surgeon. I did. And then I built A public health institution around

starting to solve problems in making that work, and I found my life's purpose. Doing that. It's amazing. I'm so fascinated by this advice you got to say yes until you're forty. Which on the one hand, I I think you make a very compelling argument that it's a great way to discover what your passions are or develop those passions and also hone your skills.

It also sounds like a recipe for indentured servitude and possibly burnout. You also have to attention to what is exhausting you. And you gotta pair that out,'cause that's the cause of burnout. Right.

You are finding your own balance. I found for me my personality. I was doing surgery and that energized me. even though I was in the middle of surgery residency, even though at that time it was a hundred and ten hours a week. I still was fired up about it. I hated

Staying up all night. I couldn't stand that. I saw the light at the end of the tunnel that that might end. But then I'd weirdly I'd get home. And a friend said, Would you write for Slate? On healthcare stuff.

And I found I was making time at nine o'clock at night. To work for a couple of hours. And I was doing it like that was a signal to me. I was not energized spending time in labs. So

I just Stopped the stuff that I didn't have the energy to do. There was a lot of things that I quit. a lot of things that I quit so that I wasn't burning out. And

the work can be overwhelming at times. but I'm marshalling my energy around spending as much of it doing the things that I can value and enjoy. There's always crap. There's always a grind in everything and that part is there. It's just there has to be some saving grace. That keeps you going.

What's the worst advice you've ever gotten? Well the constant advice I got early on, which is you have to pick one thing, a tool. Mm-hmm. And I just resisted it.

Because Some people. Will be Brilliant and best.

Diving deep into one thing. But There's lots of creativity. At the edges. Of combining

Fields. Combining approaches. And so I combined surgery and public health. And then I combined in writing and that work.

And That Is Where I'm successful. It may not be the same way other people are.

pieces of writing of yours was the article you wrote on on having a coach. And I remember seeing this headline and thinking, of course, it makes perfect sense. Athletes have coaches, musicians have coaches. Everyone else should too if they want to be at the top of their game.

You have a coach. Yes. So you're eating your own dog food or drinking your own champagne, depending on how that's going. What's that been like? What are you learning I think it's one thing to to be coached in a profession like surgery. Right, which is very task oriented. To be coached as a leader is much broader, much more ambiguous in many ways. I'd love to hear what that's been like and what you've learned about coaching through this experience. Yeah, that piece was

Prompted by recognizing that I was paying Like a hundred twenty five bucks. To have a tennis coach. And that's Roger Federer.

Rafael Nadal. Jokovic. Top players in the world. All have coaches. But that is not our paradigm in h whole swaths of other professions.

We have a an educational paradigm. You will put in your ten thousand hours of education. And then you all will be a self learner.

how to train and advance yourself. And so which one was correct? Music was really interesting to me because In parts of music like voice I got to speak to Renee Fleming.

the opera singer. All singers have coaches. They follow the sports paradigm. But In

Things like violin. They don't have coaches. And I got to call up Itsac Perlman. And ask him. D you think you need a coach?

We don't have coaches in playing violin. But I always did. His wife. That he met when he was at Jouilliard. after a period of time as a professional musician herself.

She Stopped playing. To become his coach. In the audience. Observe.

His performances. Give him feedback. And do it in effective enough ways that he could improve, set new goals, and move onward. And that's

What I learned is the pattern of coaching. Effective coaching is different from teaching. In that it involves an external view of your own reality. And then ideally it orients around the goals that you set. for where you want to advance. It can give you a framework for where you want to advance. And so

I tried it out and I'm so glad you asked me about this because I decided to bring a coach into my operating room, and it was a fellow surgeon who was one of my professors and one of the surgeons I most wanted to be like named Bob Osteen, and he died. Just a couple weeks ago. A cancer surgeon I just tremendously admire. And was my coach in the operating room.

And would Observe. And and we would set goals. I'm gonna work on how my team working in the ne these next few months. I'm gonna work on my Technical.

Skills I'm gonna work on You know, the things we worked on most in the Until I stopped doing surgery in December, w which was Painful. Teaching. And how I could be a more effective teacher.

Transating This atmosphere As I started building public health institutions, I had a executive coach that I engaged. Guy named Alan Foster. He's terrific. And we've been together now for a decade and

Working on as I've started up multiple organizations as I've advanced them along the way and now in this role. And I I actually think a lot of people have executive coaches and it has become a familiar thing. But the key to it has been not just my giving him my independent view of the world, but having him do a three sixty. And we actually just came through our three sixty here.

with our team where he Reviewed and talked to. all of my leaders and we got inputs from more than thirty people, including people reporting up to me, people above me, people that we have to work with as peers across the government, and you know, identified things that were Going well and the strengths I was building on and

the opposite things. Inevariably it was the flip side of my strengths. So for example, I'm I'm very energetic, as you might hear. And and I'm also good at making decisions and making them quickly. But I'm moving so fast that I'm not communicating them and I'm not recognizing how to move them.

Down. into the organization and across to other people. I'm already moving on to my next thing. It's the rubber band theory of leadership. You want the rubber band to pull ahead enough that people are coming with you, not not fall so far behind. They people are just swinging around behind you.

I will tend to go so far that I can break the rubber band. Uh do you have strategies for making sure that you take that feedback seriously as opposed to brushing it off and saying, Well, that's just how I work. You better get with the program. Yeah.

The main strategy is identify actions to take Which include informing people here is what I've heard and trying to set that model that you make feedback part of the culture of The place that you are

Advancing. One line of feedback. one of many lines of feedback was that I tended to interrupt people as they were talking, and that was really bad. And so We came up with the right.

that I would owe ten dollars to the candy jar. That we kept out for people come walking through. And every time I interrupted people and so people could call me out, have permission, it's ten dollars in the candy jar. My whole goal was to get rid of the candy jar. Like I wanted an empty candy jar.

I I definitely never had an empty candy jar. And so it wasn't quite accepting it. It was recognizing that, you know It was trying to diffuse it. Trying to reduce it. I reduced it. But not

Eliminated it. And there's a certain degree of You want to share the strength so you're not sacrificing the strengths along the way. They're typically related, the strengths and the weaknesses. I think of Deborah Tannin's work on what she calls high consideration versus high involvement conversation styles.

And for you to say Listen, when I interrupt, that doesn't mean I'm intending to be rude or impolite. It means I'm really engaged and it's a sign that I'm excited to jump in and build. But as a leader I know that carries a lot of weight. And it might silence people in the room. It seems like b even being able to have that conversation.

Right, is a helpful step whether or not you make it to the candy jar. Yes. You know, it's acceptable once in a while, but it can't be an acceptable pattern. The culture of a organization is the worst behavior you tolerate. We'd be in a wonderful place if the worst thing that happened is that the boss sometimes interrupts you. We have bigger problems to work on in every organization I've been part of. Because it's not just about me. It's also getting the organizational feedback.

This I got out in surgery, right? You cannot have That can cost people's lives. and then address them. And we have an institution every Wednesday morning reviewing our deaths and major complications for the patterns that underlie them. And when you're doing that on a regular basis, it's recognizing failure occurs regularly, and then you're activating that we're going to look out for them.

And then address what are the worst things that happen and then our plan for Not tolerating them.

And uh And I think that's Absolutely crucial. in public health work because of the exactly the reasons you mentioned. The scale at which We do this work.

We will have failures, we have risks we absolutely have to take. And We have to drum out The worst behaviors that set us behind. And identify where we can

Attack them. Music to my ears. Well thank you Attual. This has been just Packed with insight and I'm so grateful for the work that you're doing for not only the US, but for public health at scale around the world. Well, I'm always delighted to talk to you, Adam. Over the many years we've known each other. Fantastic to get to get to do it. In the medium of your podcast, which I'm an avid listener to.

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And now a clip from the Tim Ferris Show. My guest today, I'm very excited. About Diana Chapman. C H A P M A N Diana is a co-founder of the Conscious Leadership Group and a co-author of the book, The Fifteen Commitments of Conscious Leadership, which I am rereading right now. It just so happens. Her passion is to help organizational leaders and their teams eliminate drama in the workplace and beyond.

I learned about this thing called the drama triangle. Which many people out there may have heard about, but I realized my whole life is running around on this drama triangle. And the drama triangle was created by Stephen Cartman back in the seventies, and he Defined ways in which human beings get caught in victimhood.

That create reactivity. And I realized I'm on the triangle most of the time. And there is a big cost to me and my people when I'm on the drama triangle. And so

That was the wake up call for me. And then I just Spent. every day sense. looking for all the tools I can for how to keep myself out of that triangle as much as possible.

Since you mentioned it, let's just jump right into The drama triangle. Could you give us an overview? Of what it is and how you might use it. Okay, so Cartman says Many of us got trained to live in a state of victimhood, and there are three unique flavors of victimhood in the drama triangle. We call them bases.

So the first base is the pure victim. And the pure victim, you know, it's so hard here. I'm trying. I don't know. It's just any kind of a Oh help. You know, it's got this very disempowered feeling. And it's somehow like they've got the power. Somebody else has it, not me. And I'm very at the effect of things. So I could be at the effect of my bank account, at the effect of This email that just came in at the effect of the traffic, at the effect of the new

Policy on going back to work, at the effect of Covid, all those things are forms of Being a victim. Then the next role in the drama triangle is the villain, and the villain's job is to blame. So I can blame me. God, I should have known that, or I should have been more prepared, or any should have over here on me, or I'm not smart enough, or I can't count on myself. That's all.

villaining toward myself, or we can villain toward another. you know, you you're the reason why I'm not having as much fun as I could be having or We could be a villain to a group of people, which is very popular. In our culture, so we all know who's screwing it up for the rest of us, you know, it's that group over there, and everybody's pointing to particular groups. Who are the bad guys.

So villain's very popular because it gets our adrenaline really kicking out. I think it's actually in the terms of service on Twitter that you have to play that role when you use the service. Anyway, just a side note. Right. Right. Who's screwing it up? Who's wrong? Yeah, you don't know. You're wrong. I'm right. And so the last role in the drama triangle is the hero. It's also called The reliever or the rescuer. And the hero's job is to seek temporary relief.

So Oh my God, I had such a hard day today at work. Let me call home. I'm gonna drink my alcohol or do my gaming or get lost in Netflix or whatever I'm gonna do to give myself some temporary relief and it works. But I gotta do it again tomorrow.'Cause tomorrow I'm gonna come home, potentially burn out again, and then I'm gonna have to do the same pattern. So heroine

Is temporary relief over and over again. So I can hero myself, I could hero another, you know, oh you look like you're struggling at work and let me take over some of your Work that you're doing. I could do that from a place of real presence, but when I'm in hero doing it

I'm actually creating some codependence where I keep needing you to not be able to handle your work. So I can keep helping. And then I'll resent you over time. And then we can hero them, you know, there's a lots of philanthropies. especially in the past, they're getting better at this now, where we just throw a bunch of money at a population. And then next year they have all the same issues and they need more money and nothing ever really changes.

So The key thing is temporary relief. So we all know the story about you can give the man a fish. Every night, or you could teach him to fish for himself. So the hero gives the man the fish night after night after night. And if you're off the drama triangle, You shift to a place where You see people as empowered and

The hero asked good questions to help. people get more effective around them. So my next question I wanna Share an observation. From my rereading.

Of The book. And then the next question just to plant the seed is I'm gonna ask you why it's called the drama triangle, what drama actually means here. But in my reread which I'm in the middle of right now, of the fifteen commitments of conscious leadership, which was recommended to me by Dustin. And I think it was also recommended in my last book, Tribe of Mentors by Dustin. And

There's a section that I needed to reread, which was related to the drama triangle, and it pointed out that The villain. Could take the form of someone in a meeting. who to try to resolve conflict, or maybe not resolve, to try to minimize conflict.

always takes the blame. Like eventually at the end of the meeting they just say, you know what? It's my fault. I should have done this, this, this, this, and this. And it's easy, at least for me, to conflate Radical responsibility. With

overly blaming myself for everything. And I don't actually have a great way to approach navigating. Discerning those two for me. If that makes

any sense. So we could try to unpack that or we could jump to why it's called the drama triangle. But I'll let you choose the direction. Well, let me do both. So the reason why it's called the drama triangle is because the whole triangle is set up for a na na na. It's I'm right, you're wrong, you're to blame, or I'm to blame. It's not ask everybody to really take a hundred percent responsibility for how they're co-creating experiences.

So If I'm in the drama triangle, the villain, if I'm taking on I'm more responsible. What happens is I'll say oh I'm here at the meeting, you guys, and look, it's my fault. I'll take some of your responsibility and take it all on me.

And so There is a place to say, Hey, I have a part in how I've co-created this. Let me tell you my part. That would be me taking my hundred percent. I would also know that everybody else has a part to play too. So I'm not taking

on their responsibility as well. That's the difference between A villain and somebody who's just simply acknowledging I have a role to play here. Got us. Thank you.

And You and I have have spoken. quite a few times before we've met before spent time together. And you asked me why I invited you on to the podcast and there were a number of answers I gave. One of them was related to Kinesthetic awareness or

What our mutual friend and your business partner, Jim Detmer. I've called, at least in my in his notes to me for this conversation. This may be your term for all I know, BQ. So like IQ EQ but body intelligence. And I feel like you're very

well calibrated for this. And when we spoke maybe a year and a half ago, two years ago, I was working on this no book, you might recall. And then as I kept working on it and kept working on it, I kept coming up with great reasons to say no to the entire book, which was very meta, and I ended up stopping. But we spoke a lot about The whole body yes. And I would love to maybe use that as a wedge.

to start the conversation because I found this so incredibly helpful. when I am certainly prone to overintellectualizing everything into some extremely complicated matrix or spreadsheet or God knows what. So Could you lead us into that in whatever way makes sense? Sure. The idea is that we have these different centres of intelligence.

So we have our head, our heart, our gut. And IQ, EQ, BQ are Some of the Ways we might be describing those things these days. So body intelligence is

A recognition that I have an instinctual Awareness that Is known by my sensations

Known by how the body feels. And that There's a lot actually there. that if we start to drop into the body and pay attention It's got a lot of

guidance for us, as does our emotions, as does our intellect. And so I do have a ton of access to my body intelligence. I think it's what I lead with in my own Getting clarity about which directions to go in my life. And I've put a lot of attention on it. So it's very

palpable to me. My body screams often, you know, no, don't do that. Even though my intellect might not have an understanding of why. Let's If you wouldn't mind, walk people through how they might understand and use the whole body yes. Because for me When something is screaming

I'm decent at paying attention. But it's not always a scream. Sometimes it's Oftentimes it is it is a little more nuanced. So could you walk people through the whole body, yes, and what That

Flight checklist, looks like. Well I could Have people if we wanted to go through an experience of starting to feel what their whole body yes and nose feels like. Great. Yeah, let's do that. Let's do that. Should we do that? It's very experiential so it'll take about ten minutes and I'll have people If they're listening, I'd recommend they close their eyes.

Wonderful. We have we have all the time in the world. This isn't uh morning television. Okay. So the idea is that your body knows when there's a no. When there's a yes and when there's a what I'm gonna call a subtle no. And we say anything other than a whole body yes is a no. And to your point, it's easy to hear those screaming no's, but not so easy to hear the subtle no.

For example Someone contacted our organization the other day and he wanted to Talk. And it wasn't clear to me whether he was trying to sell us something or whether he genuinely had clients that he wanted to connect us with.

And even in my I had suspicions that it wasn't as Clean as he was suggesting. And I asked for clarification and his clarification still I couldn't really tell.

But My body did know. I felt this flat feeling in my body when I thought about having the call. And unfortunately

My head said, Well Maybe you're not sure, so let's have the call. And indeed it was a sales call and it was a not a good use of my time and I quickly hung up. That was a time in which I skipped over my no.

Because it was very subtle. And my intellect started to get worried, like what if I'm missing something and you know, what if you don't know? So I use this all the time and I'm still learning, as I did just last week. To

pay attention to the intelligences that are outside of just my intellect. And so for you all, if you want to learn more about this, What I'd like you to do is close your eyes. And I'd like you to bring to mind an experience from the past that was deeply Valuable to you.

It was something that was nurturing, it was something you would gratefully repeat that scene again. It could be time when you were celebrated, it could be a time when you were in a highly creative state that made something valuable. It could be a time when you were in nature feeling deeply centered.

So I'd like you to go back into that scene as best you can and See the images of that scene. And hear the sounds. And as you're in that scene. I want you to start to pay attention to the body.

And see if you can notice Just simply How the body is vibrating right now. When you imagine yourself In that scene.

Seeing those images. Hearing the sounds. How does your body vibrate? Is there a particular direction in which energy is flowing through the body? Now some of you might go

Diane, I'm not feeling anything here. That's fine. Just imagine if you were feeling something. Might it be okay that it it might Feel like pretend. Just for now.

Is there A certain temperature. That you notice in the body. For some people they might feel very specific sensations. It might feel like shapes inside the body.

And some people might be auditory and hear tones. Or see visuals in their mind's eye. What you're doing here is getting a map of what does a whole body yes You'll like. Just

Strolling around inside of the body, feeling what you're feeling. No right or wrong answers here. And everybody is so unique. We all have our own different ways we feel it. For me, my body It's warm.

There's that. Uprising of energy, it flows up for me. It's a Pushing the flow for me. But yours will be what it is.

And so then I'd like you to take one last Like a memory take a memory shot of this. So you can remember what this feels like. Then I'd like you to shake it off. And let it go.

And then I want you to think of a scene in the past that you don't want to repeat. And I don't recommend finding something Traumatizing. Find Something that you really didn't feel like was a good use of your time, didn't serve you, you don't want to repeat it ever again.

Or you prefer not to? If you can bring that image to mind. And again. See the visuals of that memory and hear the sounds. And I want you to notice what happens

Now in the body. Is there a different Way the body's vibrating. How is the direction of energy flowing or not flowing in this Version.

There's a difference in temperature? Any other significant sensations or shapes you feel in the in or on the body? And again tones. in the ears or visuals in your mind's eye may also be included. And you're getting a map for what no. This is a big no. Uh uh.

I don't want I don't want this. I don't think this is gonna serve me. Just mapping the territory in the body for what does this feel like. And take one last picture of that. And shake that one off.

And then we've got one more to do, and this is the subtle no. This is similar to what I was just describing earlier of Taking a meeting. You know, it didn't kill me to take the meeting. It didn't hurt. Last ten minutes and I got off the phone. But I don't It wasn't a yes, it wasn't an alive experience for me.

So this is called a subtle no. So I want you to think back everybody's got in the last two to four weeks Something that's happened in which it was a Wasn't bad, wasn't good. Mm. If you can come back and

See that scene in your mind's eye. And hear those sounds. And you're gonna check and see what's a subtle note feel like for you. How do you experience That scene.

What do you notice in the body? How does it vibrate here? How does energy flow? Or not slow. Is there a difference in temperature?

What parts of the body light up, sensations And tones or visuals as well. Trying on here. And again, if you notice don't notice much, that's okay. Just imagine if you did notice, what would you notice? And this is your map for what a subtle no feels like. And you wanna remember this feeling so that the next time somebody says, Hey, you wanna go out to lunch or could you meet me

to talk about A B C that you if you feel this, likely it's an invitation for you to try no. So you can shake that one off and then we'll Bring our attention back. to the ongoing conversation. Hey everybody.

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And admire. for this opportunity to share with all of you a small example of my podcast. The excerpt that follows centers on mindset and is excerpted from my first interview With former Navy SEAL turned endurance athlete and author. David Goggins, which was

recorded back in two thousand seventeen and is I believe David's very first podcast interview ever. For those not familiar. David just might be the toughest athlete. on planet earth.

He has completed many of the world's most grueling endurance challenges. Including running two hundred and three point five miles in forty eight hours. As well as securing top finishes at dozens of the world's most grueling foot races. of one hundred miles or more. Demonstrating

Time and again. An absolutely superhuman capacity for resolve and a preternatural ability to inspire others along the way. But perhaps David's greatest accomplishment is that throughout his life He has face and overcome a series of seemingly insurmountable obstacles. to become the man he is today.

Obstacles like asthma. Sickle cell anemia. psychological and physical abuse, obesity. Academic struggles. And even a congenital heart defect that often left him competing and winning

on a mere fraction. of his actual physical capabilities. As a result, David's insights on mindset and mental toughness are all the more profound and actionable. As a quick note in this clip. You'll hear us discuss a race called Bad Water.

Which is often described as the world's toughest. Foot race. It's a one hundred and thirty five mile. Non stop jaunt. across Death Valley and culminating up Mount Whitney

During which David ascended fourteen thousand feet. of total elevation gain. And endured temperatures often exceeding a hundred and twenty degrees Fahrenheit. So Without further ado.

This is me. And David Gogan. Yeah. So many people tell me I would love to run Bad Water one day!

Why the fuck haven't you done it? You told me that five years ago. I had an idea to run bad water. I did it in four months. I qualified in four days. It ran the damn race. I wanna be a Navy SEAL.

Had lose 105 pounds in sixty days? To get in and do it? I lost the weight? And became a damn seal. I wanted to be a ranger at 41 years old, people go, What are you gonna do next? I don't know. I've already done it.

Cause the second I thought about it. I researched it! I didn't ask questions, I achieved it! We waste tons of time not starting our journey for asking so many fucking questions on how to start the journey. Get an idea, start walking and figure the shit out as you go. Vision quest.

But David, you don't understand my life. Exactly. I got you know, I wor I have to get up at five and I work till nine and I got three kids and I'm barely making ends meet. It's cool that you can do that, but like it's just not possible. What I love about that It's People can come at me with all that crap all day long. Will I say that right there to you? I was a full time Navy SEAL.

There's twenty four hours in the day. I would do an ultra races and how I did it was I to be at work at seven o'clock in the morning. I woke up at three o'clock in the morning. I ran. And then I rode my bike to work.

And I did the same thing. Yeah, I came home. If you want it, you will find time in your life to do it. If you don't want it You will continue

To do exactly what you are now is give me excuses. You can make up every excuse on why you can't do it, and that's why I can't connect with you. That's why you hear The passion come out of me. And you wanna say it's anger? No,'cause I know it can be done.

And you're telling me all this shit on why it can't be done. And then you what you do is He's crazy. He's in the car no. You don't want it bad enough. If you want it bad enough, you will figure out how to make this shit happen. Are you willing to like entertain the possibility that you do have some

talent in doing this? Or is it all like you're chalking it all up to Preparation of mindset. If anybody's familiar with sickle cell It's a blood disease that pretty much It's called sudden death syndrome. A lot of

African Americans, you have it. Pass out and die. My VO two Max is horrible. My Hermatic and all this stuff is horrible. And also having the hole in your heart that

The the size I had, it it took away a lot of my thing left in the hand. You have like uh you're operating with twenty five percent of your capability. And that's what I'm trying to tell people. Right. I was trying to tell people everybody thinks that they wanna believe And I wish I was. After every race I was either in in a wheelchair Or whatever, because running with sickle cell is is just not the smartest thing to do. Those distances. At mile fifty of every hundred mile race, man, I was destroyed.

And I just had to find but the feeling of The next fifty miles I had to go, I I learned a lot about David Goggins and in in the wheel. It was always me against me. No. I don't have any ability. See, this is the heart of the whole thing though, because I think is really important because

If you are A genetic freak of nature. Then it's very easy for somebody to shrug you off. Like, Oh yeah, well he does it, but like he's Dave Goggins. You know what I mean? Like normal people can't do that. And for you to always anchor it and bring it back to Look, man, these are the challenges that I'm facing. I'm facing I have to overcome more

of these challenges than the average guy. Like I'm actually starting at a deficit like this. And I'm not gonna ever let anybody Make themselves feel better. Bye. Telling me Не аз сам генетик фрік.

Mm-hmm. I'm not gonna make yourself feel better about that. You I suffered. And I always say suffer'cause that's what I did. It was miserable.

The races every single race in Hell Week and Buds and in Ranger School. I suffered Tremendously. I was not I should never have been able to do it. Which is why I'm so proud of myself. I don't care what place I came in.

I don't care I walked 105 miles of bad water. I Did it! Mm-hmm. That was the journey. That was the mission. That was this about. It's not about Oh well this guy's just a freak.

If that makes you feel better, fine. No. You can do it off just a breath of air in the right Mindset. That's the message.

So you you watered down my message by Putting me in a category of I'm crazy? I'm a freak. Whatever. All of those arguments

are comfortable arguments to allow people to stay stuck in whatever situation. You know what I mean? Right. So It's more uncomfortable if they have to actually reckon and wrestle with the fact that you are like them. Dislike'em. And and no one w people don't wanna do that. Just like look in the mirror, right? And right so tell me about the mir the mirror thing is a big thing with you, right? It's a huge thing for me. It's called the accountability mirror.

So I talked about my childhood and if anybody thinks I'm Some great person. Listen to my childhood again. I had to change my thinking process and basically the accountability mirror is what did it. I started shaving my head in my face when I was sixteen years old. And

I realized when I started shaving my face in my head, you have a lot of time to look at your reflection. And for some it sparked in me, I'm like, Man, I I I'm A piece of crap. I Duck school? A duck school barely

I'm graduating, I'm I'm this, I'm this, I'm this, I'm all these things, man. And I had to really Tell myself the truth!

And so many people when you say you're dumb The first thing people say, Oh no, you're not. If you're dumb, you're dumb. If you're fat, you're fat. But if you're not willing to tell yourself that

And everybody around you in your circle it continues to give you this positive feedback. If you suck, you suck. Mm-hmm. If you tell yourself you suck? That

Is win. You become great. Well then you're s you're getting into the solution. That is what I'm talking about. So that accountability may was I gotta get to the surface of who I'm not. And I held myself accountable. I lied to this person today. I'm a liar, I'm a cheater, I'm this, I'm that. Now I tell myself.

And I fixed these issues, and fixed these issues, and that part was hard. It was hard to not be jealous of this person who had this and this and this c had nothing. Nothing. It was hard to tell this person, yeah, I'm jealous of you. And

I'm insecure. I'm a very insecure guy. And I have nothing. It was hard to look at all that. I'm I'm not real smart. Bye.

I had to fix these issues. And the accountability mirror was Now I look at myself in the mirror and say, Wow. You fix these issues. Right. So that's a thing that you consciously practice every day. Every day, my mind in the mirror.

Every day of my life, even now, so if I were to say some little white lie. And I go to the mirror in the morning time and I shame my hands like man, why the hell did you say that to that guy? And he would get a call from me and say, Look, do I I That's like that's like twelve step, man. It's like doing your daily inventory and like making amends for your bullshit. That's it. You know what I mean? So when you see this You know, we're in this cultural malaise right now where like every kid gets a participation trophy and like we have to tell everyone that they're great. You know what I mean? It's all about like h feelings and everybody's a special snowflake and all of that, like

You know, that must make you insane. It makes me more than insane. Uhhuh. It's the destruction. Of this country. And I love this country. I've I've I fought for it. I will continue to fight forward and hopefully

Through Middle toughness, it takes middle toughness to change. How you look at things. And giving a person a trophy saying you're great. When you're really not

If I had that Growing up There would be no David Goggins. Zero. There be no tough people.

Mm-hmm. None, which is why the world is where it is today. Some weak people. Right. There's a lot of weak people now. Right. So let's wrap it up with this. If you can like Distilling

Everything that you're about into like kind of one core message that you want people to take away. Like what is it Beyond what we've already talked about, what is it that's holding people back, that's limiting them, that's keeping them stuck and in their blind spot. And how can you speak to that to perhaps shake it loose a little bit and get people to think a little bit differently about how to Proactively approach their lives. The truth.

Their truth. The real truth about who they are as a person. I think it all really starts there the truth. And knowing that you may not be a courageous person or you may not have this and that, but are you willing to Find it within yourself to go through the very hard journey

A lot of people In this world have died. Eighty, ninety, hundred years old. And they lived a great life. Did a lot of things.

But a lot of people who have died never really started the true journey that whatever you believe in, God or whatever you believe in, if you believe in nothing. I believe we're all here to start a journey. And that journey is fucking hard. If you choose Your real journey.

Most of us We decided to take a different journey in life. It's a journey of at least Resistance. And so

What I challenge people to do Is to realize That In themselves. Yeah, I have taken a lot of left turns and I should've stayed straight because why? I wasn't good at something.

And it embarrassed me to not be good at something or I wasn't the smartest person or this or that. Whatever it's all these excuses are that we build up. Find the truth of who you are. Go back. To the start of your journey?

And go down that path. I guarantee you. If you finish that journey. And you don't Fear and waver and and and go place that are very easy. The other end of that journey

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