From Navy SEAL To Viral Content Creator - MrBallen’s Insane Story

I watched this grenade come over the wall. It's like I can see it for a second. It disappeared. I can see it for a second. And it was like time absolutely stood still. And when I was in this blackness of not seeing and not hearing I knew absolutely that this is dead. I had mental issues, I had emotional issues, I had real physical issues. I was a complete psychopath, and when I got out, I thought social media and content creation was just kind of fascinating. How did you decide that was a worthy way to spend your life? If you create the right thing at the right time, it's like a lottery ticket and it goes viral and then it's your chance at that point.

to capitalize in whatever way you want to. So I was obsessed with it. So despite the many failures over the course of probably you know six months or so, maybe a year of just like awful cringe videos that went nowhere. on a whim, I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna shoot a quick video and I leave my phone in the room for a couple hours, come back, and I couldn't even open my phone. And it had over five million views in a matter of a few hours. You built this empire quickly. I went into this feverish like Constantly telling stories on TikTok, uh three a day for 30 days, and then up to like seven million subscribers on TikTok, and then shift it to YouTube and Here we are.

What's one thing you can teach me to make me a better storyteller? It's something that people love and hate. You're gonna tell a story. I feel like I can rule the world, I know I can be what I want to Sean, uh have you have you ever uh seen the Mr. Ballin channel before like I asked you if he should come on? No, when I found out you were coming on as a guest, that's when the research started and I went to your TikTok first.

And then I went to YouTube and then I started watching some other stuff, but I love the genre, but I'm not like crazy about it. My brother in law is nuts about these spooky stories. He does something I don't even understand. Uh you you gotta explain this to me. There's apparently a YouTube channel that takes

spooky stories from Reddit and then reads it like Text to speech, like robotic text to speech. And he'll listen to this thing for like two hours straight. I can't believe that he does this, but When I saw that, I was like, Oh, that's like people who are far on the deep end of loving this type of content. I've I've definitely have done.

Like on a Saturday where I've got to do chores or something like that and run errands, I've done a six to eight hour marathon of ballin of Mr. Ballin. Wh it what's your consumption rate on your channel right now? Is it just through the roof? That's a Nick question. So Nick. Nick does Everything with the exception of telling the stories on camera.

Uh, I'm like completely out of the loop with virtually everything else. I just I sit down and tell stories. And Nick, Nick is the guy for literally every other question in terms of like growth of the channel, like metrics. That's Nick. That's Nick's wheelhouse. Dude, that's Nirvana for content. Oh, dude. Where you can just sit down, you just record And then you disappear and everything else happens magically. Yeah. That is the every content creator wants that. And we'll get to this, but he came in when I didn't know how to like grow my channel beyond just me and like

I was so burned out. Nick came in when it was me, and I think I had an editor and maybe like a topic finder. And that was like overwhelming for me. You know, it's like I was deleting all emails that came in, people trying to like do business with me. I just delete everything so I had no idea how to like figure out if it was good or not and Nick came in and was like, Oh dude I'll help you. And and he grew the business.

How big were you when that happened? We were like significant on YouTube, but I personally was at a place where I was I mean, just jumping in. I mean, I was it it took me about twenty six hours, give or take. to make one video in the first six months I was on YouTube, and I was doing anywhere from three to five videos a week. And at the same time, you know, I I'm married, I have three young kids.

I completely was negligent in all duties besides content. My wife is a saint and picked up everything else, but I was doing you know I mean, do the math. Twenty second like over a hundred hours of just constant grinding, like at all hours. And so even though the channel was, you know, in the millions and we were, you know, by all accounts had like made it as a as a YouTube channel. I was so close to being like, dude, this ain't worth it. Like I'm in my thirties. I got a family. Like I've done well for myself, but this is like the worst thing ever.

And it was around that time that I'm like Maybe all those people that are emailing me, maybe they can offer something that will help me like grow.'Cause I I swear to God, I was just mass deleting emails because it was so stressful. Like people that were like trying to pitch me and I saw an email come through that was like, you know, fellow combat veteran here to help. And and I had like I'm I'm a military guy and I'm immediately like okay

This guy I could talk to. I don't know who he is. I don't know what he means by help. But I open his email and he's like, Yeah, you know, I I'm I'm a day to day manager with Mr. Beast. I I have experience and traditional talent. Yeah, I'm not looking to sign you, not looking to really do anything, but I just saw, you know, your event that's rare in the space and I'd be happy to help. And so like I immediately hit him up and I'm like, I don't know you

But my life's falling apart here, man. Like I got all all this great stuff happening with YouTube, but I can't manage it. Like I'm losing my mind. And and so that that began what turned out to be The the reason that the Mr. Ballin thing did not fade into obscurity. I mean, I'm a great storyteller, but I'm I cannot I cannot grow a business. I I couldn't have done this longer than like literally that month.

Remember talking to my wife and being like I just don't know if this is worth it. But Nick came in. And and I handed the reins of virtually everything over to Nick and and he scaled the company. We have like fifty plus employees now. We got a slate of shows. I show up to the studio and just somebody else hits record and I just tell stories and I leave. Because a neck. The thing too, Johnny, is like every

creator on the planet. It's like you started All by yourself. Everything lives and dies on their shoulders and so even just letting someone in to tweak a title or or give advice on a thumbnail. is just like the the highest level of of anxiety that creators can have too.

Did he say that you were working with Mr. Beast before that? Yeah, yeah. So I got hired for To be the right hand for The CEO over at Night Media. And so Reed was Jimmy's

You know, main manager and I got recruited to go be Jimmy's number two or Reek's number two and I was running day to day with Mr B, so And before that you know No clue about anything on YouTube. So I was like learning everything from the Michael Jordan of YouTube.

And then I was applying it in real time and real practice. Before that. I was in law school, became a lawyer In a military stint. So in the Nick also when he got out of the military, so he does ninety combat missions in Iraq as an open turret gunner.

So I don't know if you're familiar with this nowadays when you're overseas, you are in an you're an enclosed Bomb proof like M wrap, this huge up armored 60,000 ton vehicle with literally a remote controlled gun that has a screen in front of you. That's how they do it now. Nick was in Iraq when it's an open turret. Like it's just you hanging it out there and like the turret gunners are the number one target like as you're rolling through on patrol. So Nick is doing this extremely dangerous mission set. comes back from Iraq, gets out of the military.

goes to law school, which is the whole thing. And then he ends up deciding he wants to get into entertainment law, but he has no idea how. So he just begins pestering WME, one of the biggest talent agencies in the world. to like let him work for them. No one's taking his calls. They're like he's showing up in his one raggedy suit that he's got, like trying to make an impression. He's this pretty yoke dude with tattoos all over him. No one wants him. He finally gets the attention of one of the partners, he's like, All right, dude.

You come here all the time, like you can work in the mailroom pushing the mail car. And the dude quickly ascended and was like working with with With talent. Like killing it. So Nick is a highly persistent dude who just does what he wants. It's pretty amazing. We got to know Jimmy'cause we do we do an event with him every year. We call it Camp M F M And uh I would say the f the first year we met him

His crew was a lot of like his friends or like his cousin and like and and that's great because you get like high loyalty and like caradery and all that. But the operations were obviously like bust busting at the teams because he's growing so fast and Every single person there has never done anything like this before, and for a lot of them Never done anything before. It's like you're you're all twenty three, you're all twenty four, you're y everybody was so young. We went back this year and his right hand man, Sean, is this guy who's like Sean Hendricks. Sounds like it reminds of you already, Nick. I think he is ex ex military as well.

He uh was just like Super operational, just an adult in the room. And w just had this like grind mindset and Like you isn't like enamored by the idea of Mr. Beast. It's not like isn't trying to be a part of the cool scene, sees it as an operation that needs to be run well.

And I uh you could just tell his whole life got better by surrounding himself with more people like that. Sam, I don't know if I ever told you the story, but we For one of our companies, we hired a ex military guy to be like our kind of like head of customer service or something like that. It was like an at home, it was a remote job he could do at home. I think he had like a leg injury, so this was like a good thing for him. And this guy

transformed our entire business. Like first he started in customer service, but he would just notice everything is broken because You know, it's a Sean company if everything is broken. And so he would find that the next thing's broken and he would just be DMing me in Slack, by the way. The best part was. He wouldn't make you feel bad about fixing stuff. He would just give me these like Military phrases he'd be like Slow as smooth and smooth as fast. He just hit me like that in the morning. And then I would be like, I don't really know where that applies, but I think it applies to everything in my life now. And uh he was like my guiding uh, you know, mentor basically from the customer service department. It was amazing.

Well, I think John s went on uh Chris Williamson's pod and he told the story where Um, I think a grenade exploded near you and you almost died and it was a really bad situation and you're like It was kind of cool though because I saw tens of millions of dollars worth of elite training go into play because when I got hurt My guys like did exactly what they were supposed to do. And it was like uh It was like clockwork where you're like, it's so cool, I can actually see all of this actually happening. And I guess I mean i i i with a lot of the military guys, it seems that goes into play with business, particularly when they're like

Dude, I'm used to grenades. This shit's easy. Yeah, it's true. A grenade basically landed between myself and a few of my other teammates. It detonates. One of the things that happens in in my limited experience in combat is you can get shot. Several times. You don't just immediately collapse to the ground unless it's a head shot or something. You can get shot and become a superhum for like thirty seconds. It's it's it's one of the most bizarre things. And it's like we're engaging these guys and in this absolute

Chaos. They lobbed the grenades over the wall to our side. And I remember I watched this grenade come over the wall. It's like I can see it for a second. It disappeared. I can see it for a second, and it was like time absolutely stood st stood still. It's not some I'm not making that up, but that's that was my experience. It's like I'm witnessing my death. Here comes this grenade. I know it's a grenade. It's like I'm my my my bear my brain has become hyper focused on what's happening. Then I remember thinking as it came closer to my head, this all happened in a fraction of a second. I remember thinking

Boy, if it detonates here, it's gonna blow my head off and I won't be my mom won't be able to identify me. Like I just hope this falls below my head. So even though it's gonna kill me, at least they can see my face. I can have an open casket, my family can see me. But you know, it reached my head and I'm just embrace embracing for death. And then you know it's lights out, lights on, lights out, lights on, it falls, it hits my shoulder. And it goes and begins to travel down to the ground. I I remember having this thought of when it was at my torso.

again in this fraction of a second thinking Phew. My my face will be intact, and now it's gonna blow me in half, but at least my mom will see her son's face. But it makes it to the ground. And now I'm thinking, holy cow, like it might just blow my legs off. I might live through this. Uh It hits the ground and it detonates.

And I can only I can only c compare it to Um First of all, I'm I'm prepared to die at this point. So I was just ready for whatever happened there was no pain involved, but it felt like somebody took a handful of rocks and just threw them as hard as they could at my back and and my my hips and my legs. And it was Zero pain. Like there wasn't even really shock, even though we're we are all

The seven of us in the lethal range of this grenade. We just think that it was basically muffled or deadened slightly by being in sewage. By the way, I got E. coli as a result of this because sewage was shot into my body. But yeah, I collapsed to the ground and then my uh And then it all hell broke loose. I mean of the seven of us that were behind this wall. Six become incapacitated down to the ground like

Unconscious or badly hurt. Our medic, who also is a seal, is he's incredible. His name is Kyle. He he would tell us later on that Everybody goes down, he knows that there's multiple enemy enemy combatants literally on the other side of the wall.

And he's like, I just went into flow. You know, he he began rescuing us. under a hail of gunfire and so rounds are coming in, rockets are being fired overhead. I'm barely conscious and our and our medic just began pulling people out under the halo gunfire. My memory, which it would take years to learn what actually happened,'cause my memory was not accurate, was I felt like the the rocks hitting me. And then I kind of like looked up and was it

waiting for a combatant to come into the the alleyway we were in and finish me off. And then like somehow or another I was pulled like 10, 20 feet away and brought into this alleyway and then m Kyle, the medic wound up putting tourniquets on my legs and saving my life. But Years after the fact, Kyle and I, we didn't speak following this.

This whole thing. It was like so traumatic. We we came back to the United States separately. We didn't talk for four years. Uh it It effed with all of us, but when I sat down with him, he would tell me that after the impact After the the detonation, he said I looked. And I saw you on the ground, and I thought at first you were on a sheet of ice.

And he was like, That doesn't make any sense because there's n it's not cold enough. And he was like, That's when I realized you were actually in a puddle of blood, you were face down, and I assumed you were dead. And in terms of triaging the situation, I I couldn't work on you. You were the the lowest chance of survival. And he was like, I left you to die. You know, I thought you were dead already.

And then after the others had basically been pulled out, you know, somebody came back and pulled me up. And I remember like being sort of in and out of consciousness, and this this my memory of this I think was fairly accurate. Because I got brought basically here's the T. I got brought like to the stem of the T, if you will, we're still getting shot at. And I I have these they're called quick release tourniquets sitting on my kit. They're they're they're literally on you.

So that you can quickly access them to stop the bleeding. And you actually put them here to save your life. And I didn't have the strength to break the rubber bands because I'd lost so much blood. And so I'm sitting there, no one's with me yet. I've just been dragged here and left. And you know, rounds are coming into the alleyway. And I uh I had this moment where

I could see everything, I could hear everything. But then my vision completely went. I went blind. I couldn't see anything. And I could only hear and then the hearing turned into what sounded like helicopter like woo woo woo woo and then I went to nothing. And I had this this point where it's I'm in a void.

Can't see anything, can't hear anything. I know I'm alive still. But it's I compare it to when I was seven years old and I I fell rollerblading and I I badly broke my collarbone. And the second I hit the ground, I stood up and I said to my dad I broke my collarbone.

And like I'm seven, I don't think I ever I ever even thought about the fact that I had a collarbone or even knew that that was called a collarbone, but it was like your brain is like, yep, that's what happened. It's something traumatic and you know it immediately. And when I was in this blackness of not seeing and not hearing I knew absolutely that this is death. Like Absolutely. It was just matter of fact. And I couldn't believe it.

Like I just got married. Me and my wife had put off the idea of having kids until after this deployment. And I'm like, I can't believe that's what's gonna happen. I'm gonna die here. And my one of my final thoughts was I wonder if in the newspaper will it say John B. Allen, like killed in action, or will it say Jonathan B. Allen? It was like just weird thoughts of like huh.

You know my will my obituary make A national newspaper or just a local paper? Like w when are they gonna tell my wife? It was just so weirdly matter of fact. And it struck me that like Y just as much as you know how to live without thinking too hard about it, it's the only thing we know. You are ready to die, you just don't know it yet.

When you face that I imagine you have some type of questioning of like Like, how do I want to spend my time, life short, things like that. Does that mental clarity kind of carry with you for for a decade? Honestly, it has. Oddly enough, even though I tried out and became a seal. I actually felt like I was somebody that was

constantly turning down opportunities in fear of failure. And it was almost like overcompensation to go try out to be a SEAL to like internally write that or balance that out. Like I had shot down so many opportunities. But After this near death experience, it's like anytime there's an opportunity, no matter how big, no matter how scary, no matter the opportunity to fail. I do actively think about the fact that like, bro, you're gonna die.

And it's it's gonna happen and it's gonna be matter of fact and it's gonna feel like holy shit, I can't believe I'm dying. And and that's it. That's the end. And and that is the thing that I think about. Just like Not the fragility of life. But the matter of factness of dying. The same way we live every day and we don't think about it. You don't wake up and think, Oh, I better live today. You just do it.

The same shit happens when you die. And it's gonna happen when you probably aren't even expecting it. It's like there you go, you're done. And so I I carry that. Um, and just to close the the loop there, after I got uh metabact and was safe, they they debrief you. uh after your med when you're taken out of country for an injury and they ask me like so what are your takeaways? Now that you've survived this ordeal. And I said to the the commanding officer, I'm like, you know what

In real time, I watched what Navy SEALs do under fire. Not me. I was completely worthless. I'm like incapacitated on the ground. But I watched millions and millions and millions of dollars in training. Like in practice, and it was beautiful. It was like the training works. And so that's actually used as a quote by that guy. He's like, The training works. This guy said so. When you're decided to do build Mr. Ballin, Mr. Ballin studio, first of all, going into business, going into content creation, and then building a media company, how did you decide that was worthy a worthy way to spend your life? Basically I fell backwards into this. I mean, I I got out of the military in twenty seventeen

It was a medical retirement that was due in large part to this injury I've just described. I I wound up deploying one more time in the team. But I had mental issues, I had emotional issues, I had real physical issues. I was a complete psychopath by the time I was being effectively told it's time for you to to wrap it up here in the Navy.

And when I got out, in an effort to get myself a a civilian job, I wound up connecting with this guy named Jordan Selig, who's this investment banker in New York, turned entrepreneur, and he's like, Man, you got a network. And so I started like going on LinkedIn and networking. Didn't even know what I was doing. I was just like m randomly messaging random people. But before long I had like met enough people that there was this idea to have a networking event.

in New York. And so I I I invited some people that were also leaving the SEAL teams to come with me. To meet some business people in New York. It was like pretty open ended. And I I wound up giving a couple of yeah, I guess a speech, if you will. at this like weird event with like fifty people. We called it Elite Meet was the name of the event. And it was meant to just be this one time event. I gave this talk about, hey, you know, in the room right now we have these veterans and like here's what they bring to the table. And Jordan, who was there with me, he talked about what the business people had and what what offered opportunities they were looking to fill. And it was great. Like a few people got hired as a result.

But ironically, nobody was asking me about getting a job because the assumption was this is your job. You run this networking event. And so I ended up making that my job. And for a couple of years I I was the CEO of of Elite Meet. But to to shorten the story The pandemic happened and Ours our our our charity was largely event based. You know, we've literally had these big networking events that we would, you know, cultivate over many months. And we couldn't do events anymore because no one could do anything. Like the world shut down.

Uh, and it was around that time that I was sort of looking at other pathways to to I don't know, to live my life and I thought social media and content creation was just kind of fascinating as I mean it's it's one of the few places where it's fairly obvious that

Yeah, unless you really buy into this idea that that algorithms are like totally, you know, leaning one way or the other. Ultimately. Content creation is a big meritocracy. You know, ultimately you can create content with no platform, no no no no nothing. And if if you create the right thing at the right time, it's like a lottery ticket and it goes viral and then it's your chance at that point. to capitalize in whatever way you want to.

And I tried uh I tried ca cashing that lottery ticket for a while, doing some cringe like Weird sketch comedy on on Instagram and And LinkedIn. And I was doing like dance videos. I'm like a middle aged dude doing dance videos on on TikTok. Getting made fun of.

It did was horrible. It was like nothing worked. I was like, Boy, I got this. I'm gonna be a content creator. But I I had this this document on my computer. I had two documents. There was like TikTok ideas or content ideas. And on one document it was like I'm not kidding.

pay like fifty pages of single space just bullets of ideas of types of content I could create. And then I had this other document that had a single word on it, or it was like a single bullet point, and it and it just said Datlov Pass. Um, so Dalov Pass is this very famous uh mystery. about these hikers in the nineteen fifties who go missing in the Ul Mountains. And yeah, they're very experienced hikers and that wind up missing and then they're found and there's these photos of their campsite and it's been, you know, desecrated and their bodies are found and they're like wearing each other's clothes, body parts are missing, they're they're uh they're radioactive.

Um, there were there was one person that was like tucked up in a tree. And there were all these scratch marks at the base of the tree. This was like in the middle of like the year old mountains. Like it's just snow and ice everywhere. And that same night, like there was a a Soviet military movement happening, and I and one of the people who was in charge who had no idea about these missing hikers. made a report that he had never made before that happened to coincide with the same time these hikers went missing. Where he said, you know, I

I see these lights that are basically coming up and down and flashing over the over this section of the mountain. Like pretty far away from our position. And that this guy was trying to find out, is there another military movement happening or is another country invading us? And so It turns out there wasn't, and no one knows what those lights were, and no one knows what happened to these hikers. And so it's this great mystery. And I thought it was fascinating.

And that's the content that I like. Like when I go on the internet to look at video when I'm eating my lunch, that's what I'm gonna watch. I'm gonna watch videos like that. And To date, I had been trying to mimic other people's content style. I was just copying stuff and trying to hit it big on social media, and it was just not going well at all. How many other videos do you think you made before you had that? that kinda hit and you found your lane.

I think this is really important. A lot of people Expect to just know they're laying up front or hit. Early on. And even if intellectually they realize I probably will have to do trial and error. Even

failing like seven, eight, nine times, eleven times in a row is completely demoralizing for for for the average person. So How many videos do you think you made? before you popped off. On TikTok specifically. Uh there there's a slightly bigger version to the story because there was a time where in between twenty seventeen and

When I got when I was medically retired and twenty twenty when I post this this video that goes viral We were using social media specifically LinkedIn. to try to drum up support for Elite Meet. We would basically tell stories in in text format with a picture attached to it about veterans that were leaving the military and and I would kinda like write stories about their experiences and then like anecdotally how they connected to why they'd be a good fit in these types of industries. And it was it was very successful, not viral, but it it raised, we raised like half a million dollars on micro donations that stemmed from these posts that we were doing, me and Jordan in particular, my co founder,

Um, and so I had gotten call it a taste of what social media can do. Nothing like, you know, what Mr. Mr. Ballin is. But it was like using social media as a real tool. And I remember sometime in like twenty eighteen and nineteen you know, we're doing all this content that's really centered on veterans and drawing, you know, donations for this charity. Uh

And I decided to kind of selfishly in tandem begin posting very similar content like An the anecdotal military experience type of content, but my own. And with n not the intention of drawing support to Elite Meet necessarily, although that was kind of like incidental. It was more like building my own personal brand as like the Navy SEAL.

And I drew the ire of the entire uh Navy C Yeah, dude. Seals hate that, don't they? Which is like super unfair because uh you know, I've read the book about the guy who killed bin Laden, uh, I forget his name. And then there's Goggins and a lot of these guys Um my sale friends. they talk shit about people who use Navy SEAL as a story.

And I understand their perspective. Their perspective is like it's us, like we don't talk about this, we all did this together. But then I understand the other perspective of like Yeah, but like you just served your country and you almost died, and like you're probably likely looking at like not that awesome of a life after you retire because you're You're bummed out about what you experienced and There's a whole bunch of shit why like you know, it doesn't look awesome once you're once you get out.

And so I understand that perspective, like, dude, take what you can get and get ahead. So it's a challenge you're in a tough spot. Yeah, and and unfortunately, you know It was a blessing and a curse because in a way when I began posting, you know Text stories of You know, how I was I wasn't intending to come off as like Mr. Navy Seal.

But that's entirely how it came off. And once I made that shift, I was like, I'm gonna delete all the seal content and start start anew. And just try my hand at something that is completely divorced from being at seal. I posted I I did probably hundreds of videos that were like I mean some did relatively well. Get a couple hundred or a thousand views, but like I I it ni nothing was turning into anything and

But I also I have this sort of obsessive quality when I want to do something. It's It's definitely what Yeah, allowed me to become a seal. It's like you if you wanna be if you wanna be really good at something, you kinda you kinda have to only do that. And I had this idea that like I really wanna

do something with social media. And so I was obsessed with it. So despite the many failures over the course of Probably you know, six months or so, maybe a year of just like awful cringe videos that went nowhere. I had like reached a point where my wife was like, dude You gotta like figure something else out here. This is not really going anywhere. She was very diplomatic about it, but we got three young kids. We had two at the time. But I was at this water park in Pennsylvania, this indoor water park with my wife and kids.

And on a whim, I was like, you know what? I'm just gonna shoot a quick video, the sixty second talk about the Diet Law Pass. And so I film it in my hotel room and I leave my phone in the room because we're going down to the water park and I didn't have a way to waterproof it. Leave my phone, me and my me and my wife and kids, we go down to the water park, uh, we're there for a couple of hours, come back, and I I couldn't even open my phone. There were so many notifications pouring in for this one video on my TikTok account that had no following. It was like this brand new account, basically.

And it had over five million views in a matter of a few hours and I was like, holy cow, like as you guys have seen in this podcast, I I love to talk, love to tell stories. Maybe I can just keep doing this on TikTok. And so I went into this feverish like constantly telling stories on TikTok. uh three a day for thirty days and then was up to like seven million subscribers on TikTok and then shifted to YouTube and

Here we are. Well Let me tell you one thing. This is gonna tell you a little bit about you and a lot about B. You told two stories just now. Yeah. You told a story. A view representing our country.

nearly dying in war. Being saved by the Navy SEALs facing a life or death experience and I was like I like this story. Then You talked about how you came home, you got on LinkedIn, you started

Uh using your You the easy button to try to post the you know content and then you admitted you were like I didn't want to be doing that. But I was doing that and I didn't care. I wanted to do it anyways. And then people shit on me for it and it felt really bad and they were right. Yeah. And I was like

I ride with this guy. I love this guy'cause uh there are so few people on earth. There are few people on earth who have lived through war and and survived. There might be even fewer people who can look at their actions and say Yeah, I don't think i and not give themselves the benefit of the doubt. Right. Everybody gives themselves the benefits of the doubt. Everyone gives themselves the charitable interpretation. I really love how honest you were about What you were doing and how that might have been like Something you're w that like you're not proud of how you did it and how you, you know, ultimately where it landed you, which was like

Through doing that, you're like all right, I wanna do storytelling, social media, maybe You kind of had a taste of it, but then you tried to make it by copying what others were doing on TikTok. And only when you did the thing that was like the intersection of like you know, what you're good at and what the world is interested in. You found that.

Authentic point where now, you know. There's nobody else doing what you were doing, or very few people were doing what you were what you were doing there. So I think there's a lot to learn fr from that. How big um is your guys' company now? I know you have forty people. And you're like Just

What do you have, eight, nine million on YouTube? And then Three million on Facebook and I don't even know how much on TikTok now. Uh a shitload. What's the Mr. Ball Foundation and You know? um ten ninety nine contractors that end up rolling up into W twos were Almost around fifty five.

And then I would say fan wise, you know, he's got nine plus million on YouTube. Eight plus million on TikTok. three and a half on Facebook, Snapchat, you name it. So I think Oh, and then you have the podcast, which does, you know eight figures in downloads a month.

And so I mean I would say the The range is about twenty five million in fans. Just for the strange dark mysterious. Empire quickly. And

You know, when I do these podcasts I wake up and I think, all right What am I excited to talk about and and learn about? Genuinely. What am I actually selfishly interested? Because that's what makes for the best podcast. On honestly, because it's That's the conversation I really want to have. And the one thing I wanted to learn from you was like,

You you built this media company And you do these kind of like Strange, dark, and mysterious. Stories. I don't do those stories. I'm not necessarily trying to build a media company, but there was one thing you said that really stood out to me when I was kind of going down the rabbit hole.

And it's around What is the mindset that's helped you become successful that I could take, even if I'm trying to do something completely different, right? How can I learn from you guys? How can I learn from a seal? And the mindset that it that it took to be successful there. that it took to be successful with community company that I might use elsewhere. And you said something that was great.

Uh, you're on Chr our buddy Chris's podcast, you said He was asking about you know, being in a rut, or how do you not get stuck? And you said, you know, one thing I'm good at. Is If I find something, uh you know, I have a basic outline of what I wanna do.

As long as something checks enough of the boxes. I don't overthink it. Because most people or you know, uh other people could Sit there and question what, you know, we have something that that you think might work and you could sit there and question and say, Is there some alternative that's slightly better? Is there something that would check more boxes or or how would this work and get caught up in the details?

I really love that mindset'cause I think that is a every entrepreneur has been guilty of that once, if not is stuck there. Can you talk a little bit about that mindset? What do you what did you mean by that? And um any maybe examples of how you approach that. Sure. Um

So I mean to be clear, definitely in terms of getting the business to fifty five employees with a slate of shows. That wasn't me. I I might be the the the face of it, but but Nick is is absolutely the architect and the guy who runs the business. Um but just relative to like you know, my role in this company Yeah, I think that what I was getting at with Chris Williamson was this idea that, you know, we are inundated. We like anybody online.

Uh are inundated oftentimes with like these pretty trope messages. Like you know, you just gotta outwork competition. You just gotta put in It's got a grind, like hustle culture. Like it's it's this whole idea of like just get out there and like just do stuff.

And it's like But what do I do? Is oftentimes the unspoken question of most people listening is like I get it. Like I need to work really hard. I need to care a lot about what I'm doing. I I people get that. But where a lot of people stumble from my perspective. Is

Just Sounds corny, but like taking action. But the idea is like there are so many things that anybody at any time could pursue, whether it's career, relationship. hobby, you name it, like there's an infinite number of things in some ways that you could you could do. And people are like, Well, is it what's the ROI if I do this? Whatever it is.

And I don't think that I set out to be this way out of strategy. I think it's just who I am, which is like if it's good enough. Just start doing it. And so for me, like I had this idea and it's so it I I have a a baseline of things I care about. I want something to be hard enough that if I do it, I'll feel really proud of doing that thing.

Like if it's easy, it's not gonna make me excited at the end. Like it needs to be a challenge. So something that's hard, something that comes with some level of like, this is gonna sound vain, but I think we're all pretty human here. some level of recognition for doing the thing. It's not the reason you do it, but you do want people to be aware that you struggled and built this thing, you did this thing, you own this thing, whatever it is. So it's like, Has to be hard. has to have some level of people being aware. This is again my my baseline. People people being aware of me accomplishing it.

And then also I want to have some level of enjoyment doing it. The Navy SEAL teams are a good example of one of those things that checked those boxes for me. Like prior to trying out for the SEAL teams I had sort of got my act together and managed to graduate college. There was a time where I definitely was not on that path by

My mom wrote my college essay to the college that accepted me. My grades were so bad. But the essay was so good. She's a professional writer. that the college actually contacted me and was like, Your grades Are not enough. But boy, that essay. You're in the door, buddy.

And I immediately like got I I got in all this trouble my first anyways, it I was on this path to like flunking out of college and being that guy That totally peaked in high school. Um but when I was back home in Quincy, Massachusetts, just south of Boston Mass, I was like in my mom's basement. after fl basically flunking out of school and getting in trouble.

I I wound up realizing that, you know, hey, if you want to graduate college, like you got to do it yourself. You got you need to own your fuck up and and like go to school and do it. And so I'm I managed to graduate. I took some local local classes, went back to the old university, I graduated, I get my degree. But I had no idea what I wanted to do after college. Like none. I major in philosophy with a minor in English because there was no pre-law degree because I sort of convinced myself that maybe I'll be a lawyer. I was like what am I gonna do? And I I just I I had this feeling of like well, man

It was really cool to like pick myself up by the bootstraps and and like graduate on my own strength here. And I began looking for opportunities. to to kinda continue doing stuff like that. And that's where I kind of developed this mindset of look for things that are hard, look for things that come with some level of recognition and things that I might enjoy doing. And I found the SEAL teams. It's like I had always been kind of enamored with the military. uh a lot of my classmates in high school, they after high school joined the Marines and went off to fight in the wars. And I actually always sort of felt a little bit guilty that I went

to college on my mom's essay and pissed it all away. And yeah, I graduated, but I always had the sort of like deep down guilt that I didn't, you know, volunteer at the time that many of my friends did. And so I kinda idolize them. I also looked at the SEAL teams as being this thing that Like Just about anybody, you know, within reason can try out for the SEAL teams. It's not something that

requires a whole lot to get in the door. I'm I'm generalizing, but it is relatively easy to try out. But it is exceptionally hard to graduate. And so perfect. It's got this incredible challenge. And then if you become a CEO, well, guess what? No one's gonna be like, yeah, but John screwed up in college. And it just felt like wow, like that checks every box for me. And I went that way and I and I became a seal and then

You know, after after The military. I I still had that kind of mindset of looking for things that I wanted to do that would be hard some level of recognition and enjoy and have some enjoyment. And I thought social media was it.

It just felt like a big challenge, you know, to to like Get noticed by the world. I know that like you I I think your father is a is a big shot journalist from uh the the Boston Globe, I think, and uh your your mom and sister are as well. Were you motivated by like Just creating cool shit, or were you motivated at all by money? Cause I've been I'm I mean, there's this phrase like king or rich. So it's like you want to be like famous.

Do you wanna be like famous or do you wanna be rich? Um I mean to be honest, like when for example, when I was trying really hard Post deleting all the sealed stuff. Like when I was trying to like find something on TikTok between dancing and

cringe stuff I was doing. I I don't think I necessarily had an exact goal in mind,'cause I truthfully didn't know where it was gonna take me. I I had low expectations I think that I looked at it because I was thirty at the time. Yeah, I'm not like an eighteen year old I'm not throwing shade on eighteen year olds, but when I was eighteen, if I was doing social media, it was for fame. Like

Be cool. Like be the cool guy. But When I was doing it, I actually was mostly probably leaning towards money in terms of make this a livelihood. I have kids, I'm married. Like this would be a really fun way to make a living. But I definitely did not have the thought that this'll be a an empire worth millions of dollars. I was thinking like, boy, wouldn't it be great if this supplemented my income.

You know, and then only when You know, this really frankly blew up. I actually I was somewhere in between recognition and money in the sense that I clearly saw this is when Nick comes into the picture, and I'm like about to give it all up, and we end up kind of like sinking and we're like, Okay, we're gonna build this thing.

It was more like the fun of the challenge, which includes If you're successful, you can be famous. If you're successful, you can make lots of money. You can have generational wealth. But for me, like more than anything, it was this idea that like, I want to do something that's really fucking hard to do. I would say of all the baseline elements I gave you Those are the things.

most drawn to oftentimes. And so that is the thing. If it was easy at a certain point to be Mr. Ballin and And grow in notoriety and make more money, I wouldn't be interested in doing it. Those are byproducts of the challenge that I often seek. Sean, whenever I hang out with guys like these guys, these ex military guys I feel inspired. I also feel

Super fucking soft. Do you uh do you feel that same way? Dude, that's not just with military guys. I feel that with the average guys. Uh don't this is of course. Yes, I feel that way. Well, I like what he said about like having a Highest order. bit, you know, like the the orienting function. Like what is your true north? And his true north is basically like It sounds like you're like looking for giant mountains to go climb, like summit. You're like, What's the what's the hard thing that I would feel proud of myself if I did, and then I know other people would be proud and respect me too if they did it. And as a byproduct of doing the hard thing, I'm sure there's rewards. Yes. John's always been like that.

Yeah, exactly. And it sounds like the seals like that. conquering social media, although it sounds goofy like TikTok or whatever, is one of the most competitive merit based things you could go compete in. What's a race that a billion people are competing in, you know, that that's one of the few. And so like Sam, what is your What's your version of that? What's the highest order uh you know, the orienting thing when you decide what are you gonna s what are you gonna devote your time and your talents to? Do you know? I mean, mine was mine's empty. It's still empty, which is it was just like money to provide for my family, but once you get past that, like It is quite you you're empty when you don't have that. Uh and I still I'm still oftentimes I'm like, I need this, I need direction. And so that's why when I hear these guys, I'm like I feel a sense of envy a a bit that they have a direction, but I feel uh slightly directionless. Do you?

At the beginning it was like prove myself early twenties. Then like late twenties was like Yeah, I'd like to have like a million dollars in the bank. Uh, you know, like some money became like the thing. Let me get to million, ten million and uh the The richer person I met, I would be like, Oh yeah, I need that much money. And then early thirties, popping out kids, I realize I I went to lifestyle. I was like, Oh, actually

It's a certain amount of money, but actually it's I don't want more money with more stress and time. I want like The maximum amount of time Least amount of stress.

but still be able to do whatever the hell I want. So enough money to do that. So that was cut what I would call lifestyle. And now I'm thirty six and In the last year I basically shifted that north again. And by the way, I don't think it's bad to shift her north. I think you have seasons of life and chapters of life and you should

They're all not all the same, you know, like having a lot of fun was really important in college for me. That was the true North. Right now it's basically Enjoyment. So what I'm trying to do is figure out what is the most me thing I could do. Like you were saying These are the stories I'm interested in, and you come from a background, I think your parents were like storytellers, and it's probably something you learned through osmosis. I I think about it like this. What what can I do that's just simply me pushed out to the world?

That is my most my highest orienting function. And then the the filter is basically Am I doing this? Because doing it is the reward, or am I doing this for some future rewards? And Most of my life I did things for future rewards. I went to college so I could get a good job and I got a good job so that I could make some money. That I got some money so that I could buy this thing. Everything was this future payoff. And now I'm like, Oh wait, I don't need to do that trade. That's a little silly.

Why don't I just do things with the act of doing it is the reward. If there happens to be other Buy products in the future. Great. But I can't do things that I don't really want to do or kinda suck today.

Because I think they might pay off in the future. I don't do those anymore. This podcast is the best thing I've ever done. And when I started it, I was basically like, I'm gonna lose I plan I wrote down in my plan I this will this should lose about ten to twenty thousand dollars a year. I'm comf I'm comfortable with that. So it's like the only like non Not only just won't make me rich. I planned for it to make me slightly poorer every year doing it. And ironically, this is the thing that's done the best. It's been the most successful of all the projects.

And I'm willing to do it forever. This is the only thing I do that I'm not looking to exit. Right. Like I'm not looking to sell this and and like then I'll be able to relax and retire. It's like no, I kinda wanna keep doing the pot. You'd have to pay me to stop. Do you guys have uh for Mr. Ballin Studios, do you guys have this like North Star in terms of how many people you're gonna reach or how big the company's gonna get? Or is this a business that you're like, man, one day we could sell this for like two hundred million dollars? The top of the mountain or like how do you how What what's the height of of of the mountain you're trying to climb here?

The North Star, I would say, for the company as far as, you know. Being a manager. It's always what's your client's north star, that's your north star. And then as CEO it's still that, but it's what's you know, what's John and I's North Star from the studio, his vision. And I implement And execute.

Well that's the noble sounding thing. John, what's the Dirty, selfish, uh, ego driven goal you have. Yeah, like surely you guys are sure surely you guys are sit down and you're like Man, I think in five years we could do a hundred million in revenue. My New Year's resolution is to like, you know Build healthy habits.

But There's the dirty selfish goal of like I want to take my shirt off and see some abs, baby. Like come on. I I won't say that, but like that's what that's part of it for sure. So I will say that before All this happened before I was in college. I always aspired to be I I played baseball growing up. Not like at a very high level. I played through high school, but I was like really good in my hometown, you know?

At one point I uh I really believed that I could potentially play for the Boston Red Sox. That's like my favorite team. And I So now you want to own'em. There's I I would say that is in terms of a selfish goal, yeah, like that would be the thing. I would want to own a piece of the Red Sox, but actually I was going to an analogy and then I was going to double back to that. When that dream was shattered, uh, sometime I remember my senior year of high school, I just like said it out loud. I'm like, Yeah, I'm probably not gonna play for the Boston Red Sox and I was like, Oh fuck like

That's true. Like I'm not. Like it they the dream is over. But um I always just like thought about like that was the dream that that was my childhood dream. Like pitch for the Boston Red Sox. That was it. And so now like that we're at this place, you know, Ball and Studios is at this place where

You know, when he's talking about recruiting the best storytellers in the world. It's it's actually a little bit different than recruiting I look at us and this this is my take my shirt off, show you the truth. I look at us as like I'll put it this way, if you're if you're a baseball player

You're an amateur baseball player like I was. You don't aspire to be the best independent baseball player in the world. That you're gonna be by yourself, just being the best. You wanna play for the fucking Boston Red Sox or the Yankees or whatever it is you wanna play for. Like that's that's the goal. Like that's the peak of baseball is playing for one of those teams.

For me the Red Sox. And so I love this idea of like thinking about that dream I had. And kinda Angling it so it's applicable to storytellers. Where there really isn't like a really prominent like

That's where the fucking storytellers go. Like that's the place. That's the stamp of approval. That is the ultimate place. If you're a storyteller in some capacity, if you are under the ball and studio's umbrella, boom, you've made it. Like that's the equivalent. I want us to be that. I wanna be the Boston Red Sox equivalent for storytellers. And so I don't know how we're gonna get there. But I want that level of prestige assigned to Ballin Studios.

relative to storytellers. And then with that, I want to own a fucking piece of the Red Sox. That's a great uh that's a great goal. Alright, so G give me give me something I can use today, meaning You're a great storyteller. You're trying to build the team of the greatest storytellers.

Tell me teach me something that will make me a better storyteller. Today. What's one thing you could teach me to make me a better better storyteller? Um, it's something that people love and hate. that that tune into my content. This is like it's kind of a polarizing thing. But one of the things that I'll do when I'm telling a story, like if it's not my own, if it's somebody else's story, which is like ninety nine percent of the stories I've done.

Is I don't just resuscitate the facts of the story. I And with a a very incredible team of people. It's not just me anymore. We will like inhabit that story. It's

I don't like I have scripts that sit next to me, but like as my producer is who's right over here will attest to I'm not reading the script. It's a matter of producing a script that I can then like become a part of. I will begin espousing what people are thinking or what people could have been thinking or what could have been said in certain situations that I have no way of knowing. But I am so committed to telling that story that I have learned it both outside as much as I can inside. So that when you're hearing it, It would almost be like it was my story.

Like the level of commitment. If you're gonna tell a story Own the fucking story. Like It enter the story and don't leave until it's done. People that like

tell you a story and it sounds like they're just telling something they heard. That's not storytelling. That's just regurgitating something you heard. You wanna be a fucking storyteller, inhabit the story. full commitment to the point where you are literally acting out pieces of that story for your audience. Damn, I'm hyped up, Sam Sam. You are the man. Sam, are you feeling what I'm feeling right now? Yeah. I once fell in love with this girl in Australia. It's called love. I fell in love with this girl in Australia and she was a dancer. She wanted me to come out dancing with her. I said, No, no, no, I'm not a dancer. You're a dancer. You do that. I'll watch you over here on the side. She said, No, get over here.

And um She was like okay. Hand on my hip. And I put my hand on her hip and she goes I'll be stop you right there. I was like oh man, I already fucked up. This dance are getting us to move our feet yet.

Yeah, she goes. If you ever touch someone, touch'em with intent. And I feel like that's what you just told me. If you're gonna tell a story, tell the story with some intent. You gotta touch with intent when you tell the story. I love that. This woman sounds awesome. She also told me she wanted to um never get married and have a man at every port. And I was like, I don't know if that's a figure of speech or this a lifestyle choice. I don't know we're I don't really wanna know what's going on, but I I I think you're a little too um Adventurous for me. Dude, you guys are awesome. Uh your team's uh saying you gotta wrap up and uh we appreciate y'all. Uh you I've really admired you guys from afar. Come on.

Yeah. Thank you for having us. This is great. Alright, that's the pod. We appreciate y'all. I feel like I can root Well

To be what I want to I put my all in it like my day song on the road Travel never looking back

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