How To Grow An Audience If You Have 0 Followers

Alright, I got a great question in my inbox this morning, and it is from a guy named Tony L. So he says, Uncle Sean. I love the nickname by the way. Uncle Sean, I'm leaning into that. He said, Uh if you were starting from scratch Building an audience again from zero. Today, twenty twenty four, if you're starting again from zero, how would you do it? What advice would you give somebody like me who wants to be a content creator but has zero followers today?

Tony from Miami. All right. Tony, I got an answer for you. I feel like I can rule the world, I know I can be what I want to I put my law in it like my day's all on the road, let's travel. So look at the first I gotta flash my badge. I'm like an FBI officer who walks into the room and I gotta show you my credentials if you're gonna take me seriously. So I've built a you know email following of over five hundred thousand subscribers. I've built a Twitter following of

four hundred thousand plus On YouTube, I think I have 500,000 plus subscribers. This podcast has done over a hundred million downloads in the last four or five years. So that's all in a four-year time span. One. University block. And All of that has happened.

And I've learned some things. And what I'm not gonna do today is I'm not gonna give you Either A generic advice like you gotta be consistent and just be yourself, right? Like Okay, sure, but not very helpful. Obvious and not helpful. So I'm going to share the counterintuitive things I've learned. I wrote down nine. So nine counterintuitive, surprising things that I've learned.

I'm also not gonna give you some generic one size fits all advice. I hate when people do this, especially this sort of uh YouTube grew economy of like, here's the answer. As if There is such a simple formulaic answer that you could follow that anybody could follow, right? It's very personal and there's Art and science as a blend. It's nothing is guaranteed. But I will share with you. The wisdom that I wish I had. When I was starting from scratch, four or five years ago

versus today, knowing what I know now, what is the wisdom that was surprising, non obvious that um I wish I could have just drilled into my brain then. And if you're starting to stay, you could take this now. I'd also like to say that There are many ways to peel the banana. And all I know is the way that I do it. Maybe other people do it a different way, they have had success, but I can only share with you what's worked for me.

And how I think about it. And you can choose if that fits for you, if that resonates or not. All right. So Here's the nine non obvious lessons I've had building A big ass audience. Number one.

Forget the numbers. You want to focus on who follows you, not How many people follow you? Tim Ferris once said something that really stuck in my head. He says Okay, thought experiment. Would you rather have one hundred thousand Americans picked at random from across the country?

Be chosen to read your book. Or Have every member of Davos. Read your book and love your work. obviously you'd pick Davos, right? You'd pick the higher value, higher signal group of people.

This is a a general principle that I buy into, which is that more important than how many people follow you is Who follows you because the content you put out is who you're gonna attract. And This is hard to do. This is surprisingly hard to do. The first reason is because the platforms shove the numbers in your face. Especially a platform like YouTube where

Not only do you see how many views every video gets all your audience members see how many views every video gets and you know that they're gonna see it. So it is very hard to block that out. Podcasting, a little bit easier. Not everybody can see how many downloads a podcast gets, only you can see it. But every platform has some version of this. Instagram, Twitter, whatever whatever your your your platform is. It is very, very easy. To

Start to chase the number. So the bad news is it's hard to resist that. The good news is it's hard for everybody else to resist that. In fact, they won't even try. Everybody else will fall into this trap. And so it is actually a competitive advantage. to completely ignore the numbers at the beginning and focus more on attracting the right types of people to your content. Who are you actually trying to tr try to uh attract? Like I got a buddy, he manages Hollywood talent. So when he writes a newsletter, it doesn't matter if there's

a hundred thousand people reading it or a thousand, as long as the thousand people who read it are the right people. They're people that either need his service or they're people that are like him, agents in the game. talent managers that are very high signal and will become his future professional network, right? I'll use a car analogy as well. Which is dangerous because I'm probably the one Guy on earth who knows nothing about cars, doesn't care about cars. But

I dabble. So General Motors sells two and a half million cars a year. And is a like fifty billion ish dollar company. Ferrari only sells thirteen thousand cars. Two hundred times less, right? Two hundred times less.

Fewer customers, less reach. But is it an eighty billion dollar company? So almost double the value. And so how is that possible where you can have two hundred thousand uh two hundred times less reach. Yet still be more valuable. And it's because

Ferrari chose to be luxury. They chose to sell to higher end customers. One customer for them is worth two hundred For a average car company. That's why they have much thicker profit margins and so on and so forth. And there's a principle there, which is Attracting the right customer. One of the right customer is worth

I don't know, a hundred. random or non correct customers for you. And I use customer because in content, whether it's a viewer, a reader, a follower, they're customers of yours. You're producing a product, they're consuming it. Let's call that a customer.

Um, so point number one. Quality matter matters much more than quantity. You might Think you w believe that. But watch ninety five percent of your attention will go towards your follower accounts, your view accounts, and all that other stuff. Resist this. Okay.

Lesson number two, what should I talk about? My trainer, uh, who I work out with every morning, he's got these great phrases. And one of his f great phrases is The best product is just you. pushed out to the world. It's basically like if I just turned you inside out and the whole world got to see what you are all about, what you stand for.

That If you could just productize that, this is me pushed out to the world. That is the best product. Why? Because No one can compete with you at being you. If you truly just take your desires, your interests, your tastes, your opinions, and you package that and productize that properly. You are in a market of one. Nobody else can match your taste palette. Nobody else can match your set of experiences, prior experiences and stories, and nobody can match your delivery style as as well as your opinions. And so

core thing you could do if you really want to be great and separate yourself in the content game. is make the product you pushed out. I call this Finding your inner nerd. So quick story. I remember going when I was younger to my uncle's house. And we get to his house.

And he's like, Hey, you wanna see something? And he takes me down to the basement and he shows me flicks on the light and he shows me This elaborate model train set. That he has been working on For years, like five years plus.

And it had all these little like the scenery, the trees and the trains, and it was I mean, it was incredible. And he's show me this proudly. He's beaming, he's smiling. And in my head, I'm trying to smile back, but I'm like, Wow, my uncle is the biggest dork in the world. But In the content game?

You wanna be like my uncle. You wanna unleash your inner nerd. You want to go go go down the main spit and show everybody that train set that you've been tinkering with for a long time. Why is this? Well, because the things that you nerd out about are the things that you know the most about. It's the nuanced, in-depth, detailed Over the top passionate obsessed. That actually turns into great content. And you see this, by the way, on platforms like TikTok. You'll see a guy who's a tomato farmer and he's like all about tomatoes. This guy thinks about tomatoes more than anybody in my city has thought about tomatoes. And so that guy's got an obsession and an inner nerddom about tomatoes.

And The reality is that the the internet is a geography vaporizer. So Let's take me for example. If I just took my set of inner nerdy obsessions. It's like oh man, I really love

On one hand, I love startups and building companies and I'm I love going and reading old stories about the PayPal Mafia and leaked email transactions about how Zuck bought Instagram. That's my I love that. That's my Netflix, right? But then I also like basketball and I also like trashy reality TV. I I like a bunch of different things. Now, if I walked outside my neighborhood growing up and I tried to find somebody who had the same interests as me Zero. Right. There would be nobody who has the same

set of weird obsessions as I do. Even if I took one of them. Like I like basketball, but I don't just like basketball. I freaking love basketball. I'm obsessed with basketball. And there weren't really many people growing up that were as obsessed with basketball as I was. They didn't find the jokes as funny. They didn't find the the nerdy X's and O stuff as interesting as I did. The internet. Vaporizes all of that. On the internet.

You go on there, you will find your tribe. You will find the ten thousand people in the world that are as weirdly obsessed about a s single subject as you are, right? And um That's what works. And so there are people who do this. There's a guy on Twitter I love, die workwear. This guy just loves men's fashion. And he will think about, talk about, and obsess about

You know, how long a pant leg should be on a men's suit. Something that I don't personally care that much about, but He does and he has found his tribe online. That's what you want to do with content on the internet. You want to find your tribe by unleashing your inner nerd. Uh you get rid of con competition. And also, by the way, the secret here It makes success.

A guarantee. What do I mean by this? normally if you come to me and you said, Hey, I want to build a big following, uh you know, winning to me is becoming famous online. Nobody really says this, but that's what we all want. Winning to me is having a huge audience.

Well If that's your only definition of winning. You will almost certainly fail. And even if you succeed, you will feel like a failure for many years probably before that ever happens. That's a pretty miserable thing. Like one percent odds of success.

If ever. And in that one percent, it still takes years. So every day you're gonna feel like a failure. However, when you unleash your inner nerd, the benefit is You're just reading about stuff you're really interested in. You're talking to people who are You know, experts at the thing you really love.

You are learning, packaging up the what you've learned, and you're sharing it with the world. And you're just really into that stuff. And so every day feels like a win because you are. talking about the things you are most interested in, which just lights you up. And so you shift the odds of success to maybe one percent, maybe many years down the road to every day 100% of the time. I like those odds. Okay, lesson number three. Build a magnet, not an audience.

Everybody wants to build an audience. I think that's the wrong way of thinking about it. The way I think about it is I am building A magnet. A giant magnet. that will attract like minded people into my life. So every blog, every podcast, every video, it's a honeypot. I'm just trying to trap. like minded people into coming into my orbit. And then I get to know them. I get to meet them. And then they

start to um share things with me that uh you know they know that I'll like because we're like minded. And this has led to incredible deals. You know, for my business. It's led to incredible friendships for me. It's led to a faster rate of learning because people will start to send me stuff they know that I'll like. And so I'm trying to build a magnet to bring people to me, not an audience. Okay.

Next one. Back in the category of what do I actually talk about. There's an exercise. that I'll give you. This is probably one of the only tactical things that I'm gonna say, like a Everybody can literally go write this down and do this and it will make your content better.

And again, I'm trying not to go super prescriptive because everybody's got their own voice. You might like LinkedIn, another guy likes podcasting. You can win. There's a million different ways to win. I'm giving you the timeless principles and hard earned wisdom. But one tactical thing I will give you is an exercise you can do. And I call it. First last. Best, worst, weirdest.

Five questions. First, last Best worst. Weirdest. Stole this from Matthew Dix. Um I added the weirdest one. He did the First last, best worst. So what you do is you take any

subject in your life. Like Jobs. You say. First job. Last job.

Best job, worst job, weirdest job. And in each, you'll just immediately come up with things. My first job was I used to um Coach basketball at a School for autistic and Asburgers kids. Cool.

My last job that I had was working at Twitch. My uh worst job was when I created I I built a sushi restaurant and every day my hands were like covered in tuna. My weirdest job was when I worked for this psychobillionaire in Indonesia who um Too many stories to tell there, but that guy.

So Everybody has a version of these. And you could do that with relationships. What's your first relationship, your last relationship, your weirdest relationship, your best relationship, your worst relationship. You could so you could do this with jobs, relationships, you could do this with side hustles, projects, whatever. And that will create just this huge pipeline of s personal stories that you can tell. Because most people want to say, All right, what what do you got? What's your content?

They have like one or two ideas. It's like you should be idea rich. Time poor maybe, but idea rich. And the way to get idea rich is a very simple exercise. First last, best, worst, weirdest. And then you plug in different subjects. And you'll suddenly be sitting in front of 200 personal stories that only you can tell. And then you basically circle the ones that you think have the most juice. And then you that turns into content for you.

All right. Next one. The five D's. So A lot of people want to be famous.

But I've learned over time that is the wrong goal. Fame itself kind of annoying. But there's something to it, right? Like I don't think I wanna be famous, but I do want people to know me. Well w what is that? Well, I don't want to be well known. I wanna be known well.

So what does it mean to know somebody well? That's an interesting question. I think it's You know, their personal stories. Like I just said.

Their hopes, their dreams, their fears, their obsessions, their quirks. Uh, that's what that's what goes into actually feeling like you you're known well. And when somebody feels like they know you well, they're feel connected to you. When they're connected to you, that's when they subscribe to you. That's when they pay for you. That's when they show up to your live events and sell out arenas. That is how you build. A truly powerful audience. So the five D's, what are they? The first D, done. What have I done?

What's my track record? You should know that about me. Um That's a goal you should have as a creator, that your audience should know what you've done. They should know what you deliver, meaning what do you offer people who follow you? For example, This podcast on this podcast I offer Uh interesting business ideas. So

Opportunities, trends. Business ideas. uh business breakdowns. I'll tell you about businesses you haven't heard of that are interesting that are either just cash flow monsters or, you know, they could be billion dollar companies in the future. Um I'll tell you about those. teach about those. And the last one is frameworks, ideas, much like this podcast here. I am telling you a a a way that I think about things that might be useful to you, bring you clarity, um, and bring you hopefully more success.

So That's what I deliver. What do you deliver? The third D, do. What do I do for work and what do I do for fun? I want you to know that.

Fourth, dreams. What am I shooting for? What's my goal? Right? If I said Gary Vee, a very popular person, who is very well known, but also known well Gary V wants to buy the Jets. If you ever follow Gary Vee, you probably know that Gary Vee wants to buy the Jets. And um that's his dream. And by the way, it's such a good dream. So smart of him because A, it's aspirational, it's relatable, but wanting to buy own a sports team, it tells you about him. He grew up a miserable Jets fan.

It's also likable. He didn't say I want to buy the Yankees, which is like, Oh yeah, of course everybody wants to buy the Yankees. He's saying I want to buy the loser franchise for my hometown and I wanna help turn them around. That's an admirable sort of like underdog underdog way of saying something that's kinda douchey in reality, which is I wanna be so rich I could buy a sports team. So anyways. But you should tell people your dreams. And the fifth one Dork out. What are you really into? What are you what are you a nerd about? What do you collect?

That's what you people should know about you. So the five D's. This gives you two wins. Your audience feels more connected to you, but also you get luckier. It's weird, I said that right. Luckier, yeah, that was a surprise to me too. There's a certain type of luck where when people know you really well, And they find something that they know you will find valuable or you could help them with. They will reach out to you. And it's almost like you were out there searching for it, but you never had to leave your own.

Uh the analogy here came from Naval that I really loved, which was Imagine you are No. Well. You are known well. You are known to be somebody who loves diving deep sea for treasures, and you were the best at this, and you have done it several times. You've shared your stories.

Well, when somebody on the other side of the world finds a hidden treasure buried deep in the ocean. You will be their first phone call. Because luck will find you in that scenario. And so that's uh something that comes out of the five D's. Okay. This is getting kinda long, right? But you're still here.

That's weird. Well that's because there's another important principle, which is there's no such thing as too long, only too boring. So If you bounce by now, it's because I'm telling you things that you don't find interesting, you don't find insightful, um, or you don't find novel. But if you're still here.

Listen to one guy on a monologue for this long. You can literally hear my mouth drying up. It's because I'm telling you things that are insightful, that are entertaining, and that are um useful to you. So there's no such thing as too long, only too boring. Next one. I think I'm on seven.

Um don't worry about writing style or production quality if you're doing audio video. The goal is not C minus content with A plus production. It's A plus content with C minus delivery. That's the starting point you should be going for. That's the first milestone of success. I do not waste hours on packaging, um, or or perfecting my setup. If you go look at the early versions of this podcast, it's me in a bedroom with Shitty headphones and shitty audio and Literally the very first version of this, I had like one AirPod in, like it was bad, right?

go look at Joe Rogan's first podcast. Here's a screenshot of it. If you're on YouTube, you can see it. Um, you know, it's literally Joe with a fuzzy webcam. There's literally like a snowflakes like trippy effect on the screen, like which is like so obnoxious. There's a giant rainbow background behind him. Like today, Joe's the king of podcasts. He's got a custom studio. But back then He didn't worry about all that. He first Conquered content. Then

Concord packaging. I see a lot of people get this wrong because they go look at people who are 10 years into the game and they think, oh, that's how my shit needs to look. No no no First nail content when you're confident you've nailed content. Then start leveling up your production. Number eight.

Create a bench bank. So At the beginning, your numbers are gonna be small. Mine were also small. Everybody's numbers are small at the beginning. That is now normal, natural, and pretty much unavoidable. It is very natural to start thinking at that point. Man, what's the point of even doing this, right? Nobody's even gonna see this. Yeah, my last video got eight views. You cannot think about the eight views. It will demoralize you, it will kill your momentum that you need to build up. Instead, the trick here is convince yourself, No, no, no, forget the eight views. That's not what this is about. I am building my binge bank.

So a binge bank is like your own personal Netflix bingeworthy show. It's an hour or two of your content. That if somebody was interested, they could go, click the button, consume it, and be like, Man, I'm a huge fan of this person. That's the goal. Create? An hour or two of content that if somebody ever got ever got there, and of course they will, why would they not? You're all you're awesome. Eventually people will show up.

That when they do that. In an hour or two, they'll walk away being like, Wow. I love this guy. This guy's awesome. Um so That's a trick to overcome the chicken and egg problem of

having an empty room at the beginning is No no no forget the empty room. I'm building my binge bank right now. The last last two I'll give you here. People don't want information, they want a feeling. What does this mean? So I think of any channel I create. As a little shop in the world's most crowded flea market,'cause that's what social media is. It's probably the most competitive market.

Mm. More more competitive than the dating market, right? There's billions of people on social media every day fighting for attention. If you're gonna be in that market. You have to know what you're selling. You're not selling things, you are selling a feeling.

David Blaine, when he creates his show, he's not selling magic tricks, he's selling the feeling of awe. James Clear, who talks about habits. He's not selling habits. He's feeling uh he's selling a feeling of self control, a feeling of hope that I can actually turn my life around through Just habit stuff. The UFC, Dana White once said, I don't I don't sell fights, I sell holy shit moments all live on pay per view.

I love that. Uh Tony Robbins. He sells a feeling of motivation, CrossFit. They s they sell a feeling of a satisfying sweat. And if you give people a feeling once or twice, maybe they'll give you a follow up. But if you give it to'em every day For several years. you have a lifelong fan.

And uh I figured out what I wanted to sell. Which was inspiration. And I try to do it consistently, meaning I want you when you listen to me You're gonna be inspired either by a success story I tell you about about overcoming failure story, about a personal story where I did one of those two things.

Or I'm going to sell you id inspiration around ideas like, hey, I think this can work or I think this tactic can work. And you will feel inspired to go take action. That's what I try to sell. Why? Because that's the feeling I like. So that's why I try to give other people. And last one, my bonus one. Be so good they can't ignore you. I have uh had the fortune of becoming

friends with Mr Beast over the last few years and if there's someone you want to learn content from It's Mr. Beast. It's the number one. most watched YouTuber in the world. And I love his attitude towards content. Here's the advice that Mr. Beast gives whenever somebody asks him about how to be a successful YouTuber.

He tells them. Go make a hundred videos. And every video. On the hundred. I want you to think of one thing you're gonna do better than the last video. Maybe it's your hook, maybe it's your title, maybe it's your thumbnail, maybe it's the storytelling, maybe it's the editing pace, whatever. It doesn't matter what it is.

Hundred videos. Improve each one. Try to make one be conscious about making one thing better each time. I love this advice. I love it for two reasons. Number one It's true and extremely useful advice.

But more importantly, It just shoes people away. Cause what they come to you for is the secret sauce, the answer. And what he gives them instead is the path. Here's the way he teaches them to fish. It immediately filters people out. He says that like, you know, 99% of people when he tells them that, he never hears from them again. They never go to it. So it kind of filters out the unserious people. And there's a lot of unserious people in this life. And the serious people, it also works for them. It shoes them away too, because by the time they do the hundred, improving one thing each time, they don't need his advice anymore. By the hundredth one, they've got it. It's working. It's cranking. They're so busy they forgot about Mr. Beast. So that's why that is golden advice. I'm doing that right now. So

This Is something I wrote on a new content series that I'm doing. So four years ago I started this podcast, my first million. I Did it by myself.

I interviewed my friends so we have the first episode and I just told myself I was gonna try to do Fifty of these episodes. And I said, I'm gonna do fifty, I'm trying to make one thing better every time. Similar philosophy. I I used fifth at the time. Fast forward four years, I've just started my first new content project since then.

Which is a email series. So if you go to SeanPurry.com, you can see it. You get to watch me do my hundred reps. This is now rep number four. All the content that I'm t telling you today is something I just sent out in my email. to everybody who's on that list. So if you like this type of content. Go to Sean Purry dot com, subscribe to it. And you get to see me do these reps in public and you'll get more content like this if this is what floats your boat.

So I have a new content series where I'm like uh People email me. And I publish the email chain. So basically fans email me questions and I answer them. And sometimes I email friends, so like interesting people, maybe an expert on the election or an expert on um whatever, or like we're doing one with LeBron James' trainer of you know, say he's been training LeBron James since he was 19, 20 years old. And for twenty years he's been his personal trainer. So we're doing a series with him, where we email back and forth. And we publish publish the whole chain for anybody to read. It's really great. It's kinda like the uh

Like the banter of a podcast'cause two people going back and forth. But it's the ease and readability of a blog post. So that's my my sales pitch for it. But My approach to that to making that successful is exactly the same. I'm gonna do a hundred reps. And every single Week, you will notice I t I pick one or two things, and I'm actually gonna publish what is the one thing I focused on making better this week. I'm gonna publish that so that anybody can see it.

That is how I'm going to make that series great. Or I'm going to figure out that, hey, this is not for me. But either way, that is the correct approach to giving myself a chance of greatness. And that's what you should do. For yourself. The other thing I love that Mr. B says he is he g he goes, A lot of people I hear them say, Oh man, I Yeah, I'm trying my hardest. I'm doing great, but you know, the algorithm uh is I just can't, you know, I have to do all the stuff. The algorithm doesn't like it. The algorithm's not serving my video. He says, Anytime you blame you say the word algorithm, just switch it with the word people because you're blaming the algorithm. The algorithm didn't like my video.

No no no People didn't like your video. The algorithm is just simply giving people videos they like. If the algorithm's not giving them the video, it's because they didn't like your video. I think that's a very useful thing to note, which is

It's a skill issue. It is in your control to make your content better, to be so good. That they can't ignore you. All right. I hope that's helpful. If you like this uh type of content, let me know in the comments here on YouTube. And please go subscribe to my new email series. It's called Good Friday. It's stuff like this. So if this was really inspiring to you, if this felt actionable, felt insightful, felt fun to listen to.

Um check it out. Uh yeah at SeanPuri.com. I'll put the link in the description below. And you can just type your email in and subscribe. It's a little fun animation when you do it. Check it out. Good Friday. That's the the email series. By the way, why did I call Good Friday? Because I knew I noticed that. Most email newsletters are sent on Mondays, Tuesday, Wednesdays, whatever. Nobody sends emails on Friday. Because most people hate getting emails on Friday.

But for me I thought about this way. What is the one good email I could send to somebody on Friday? What's a little bit of brain food? Something that is both entertaining and insightful that you could have going into the weekend. It's that one good email on Friday. And that's what I committed to. I'm gonna send a good ass email every Friday for the next hundred uh next hundred Friday. So we'll see how that goes. Check it out and uh thank you for tuning in. I feel like I can root

Well be what I want to I put my all in it like my days off On the road less travel never looking back

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